I NEARLY SHED TEARS.

While I was on my way home yesterday, suddenly my eyes was opened to a particular scenario and I ended up developing a teary eyes.

Not that this scenario was new or novel but I became touchy and emotional while thinking deep about what I saw because I have nothing at my disposal to take care of the situation.

I was moved to tears sighting a woman sitting down on a concrete pavement by the road side on Wempco Road in Ogba with two children,while one of the children was sleeping,the other was seeing playing around in the open.

It was the one asleep that really moved my eyes to tears because she should be my daughter’s age.

I kept asking myself how possible for someone to be homeless or a destitute but I remember how endemic the scourge of poverty has been in this part of the world.

While some people are blessed with uncontrolled abundance,others as are held in abject poverty with no hope of knowing what next to do.

This sight simply potrays hopelessness and homelessness and it bothered me to the extreme seeing little children being a victim of such.

How can little children be exposed to this height of poverty that no one could explain.

Sleeping and playing in the open and in the cold is too extreme to behold and think about.

This is a pointer that the world we live in has not been fair to some class of people which bring it to the fact that many of us needs to do more in becoming a force of reckoning in taking care of the society st large.

Our society be needs to create more awareness about the plight of the less privileged and fashion policies that will help in driving welfarism of the homeless and hopeless as a front burner issue to the plight of the less privileged especially little children that are expected to be innocent and unexposed to the imbalance the entire world offers.

Hopelessness and homelessness are real and they are all present around us with frustration have a toil on the sanity of many people.

Few days before sighting this anomaly,it was the thought of a bubbling young lady that committed suicide that weighed me down and it was alleged that she went suicidal due to depression.

I kept asking myself how could a young mind be against herself until she took her life but experiences around made me to understand that some people have never have a day or a moment of happiness since they step on the earthly platform.

Life has proved unbearable to them from day one and they have not been able to ride above this plate of struggle and strive for a life that is better off in all ramification.

I wish many people we see the reason why we must do a bit to salvage the plight of the less privileged around us.

May God help everyone passing through one frustration or the other.

Depression and frustration are real but suicide can never be an option.

Never give in to it.

keep your head above water.

Tomorrow is bound to be better if you keep hope alive.

© FADEYI FELIX FEMI.

20th of March 2021.

Couples committed suicide in Delta State

A couple has been found dead at their apartment in Ojigbo Crescent, off Sapele-Effurun Road, Uvwie LGA of Delta State.

The couple, 33-year-old Emmanuel Oshiotu and Amaka Okafor, 25, were found by neighbours on Thursday, February 25. It was gathered that a poisonous substance and a knife were found beside their bodies indicating suicide, or maybe murder-suicide.

According to report, a neighbor said at about 5:00 a.m., Emmanuel was heard screaming for help. On breaking into his room, he was found foaming from his mouth, while his girlfriend’s body laid a few distance from him.

The lovers were rushed to the Central Hospital, Warri, where they were both confirmed dead and bodies later deposited in the morgue.

Do you handle rejection in this 10 ways?

Many people who have been victims of depression and suicide have been chronicled to be people who viewed the society been against them which have been a thought that has its root and route to rejection from the society that they expected to have been a source of succor to them.

 

 

 

rejection 2

 

I was inspired to put down my line of thought from the experience I had yesterday marketing my product to someone, and he rejected my proposal based on the cost of the product .While I was analyzing this encounter, I ended up encouraging myself that the fact that someone rejected my proposal does not mean that others will not accept it.

 

I ended up encouraging myself to move on and break other fallow land that are waiting for me.

 

This simply confirmed the submission made by John Paul Dejoria:

“The biggest hurdle is rejection. Any business you start, be ready for it. The difference between successful people and unsuccessful people is the successful people do all the things the unsuccessful people don’t want to do. When 10 doors are slammed in your face, go to door number 11 enthusiastically, with a smile on your face.”

John Paul DeJoria

 

 

It is not an abnormality for you to expect people around you to accept or fall in alignment with your ideas, philosophies and lines of thought.

 

In reality, it is impossible for people around you to see things the ways you are seeing it. There is always clash of views, ideas and philosophies which is a conformation that as humans we are all created for different purpose and the fulfilment of such purpose must be carried out in a different way.

 

So, it is expected that a chunk of your ideas, views, concept and philosophies would be waved aside as nothing but a piece of trash.

 

This places a responsibility on you to develop a think skin to any form of rejection that might come on your way because in reality and in practicality, rejection is one of the channels whereby the greatness in you will emerge.

 

 

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It is when you are rejected and criticized that the understanding of the correction needed for you to become a sought out for would emerge.

 

It should be noted by you that:

“Every single rejection offers you a countless acceptance that will end up bringing out the best in you”.

 

Hence, the need to understand the solution to any form of rejection is needed.

 

So, the question is:

 

How do you handle rejection?

1.Expect little from people.

2.Always expect disappointment.

3.Encourage yourself all the time.

4.Be conscious of your personality

5.Improve on yourself.

6.Be inspired all the time.

7.Do not give in to negative thought.

8.Stay away from wrong company.

9.Believe in yourself and break fallow grounds.

10.Be a light to others because you become what you want others to become.

 

In conclusion, there is need for you to be the one to bring out the best in you in life because it is only few people that is interested in you being better in your desire to get fulfilled in life.

 

No doubt about it, there will be down moments but you should not allow situation around you to put you down. Anytime, you are down, always encourage yourself to rise up and overcome whatever puts you down.

 

REF:

 

https://www.brainyquote.com/quotes/john_paul_dejoria_529419?src=t_rejection

 

©Mlstcommunications 2019

 

©mlstmedia 2019

How another suicide was committed in Lagos.

Days after a student of the Department of Hospital Management at the Lagos State Polytechnic, Laspotech, in Ikorodu committed suicide because of his girlfriend’s decision to jilt him, another has killed herself.

The tragic incident happened at Sedar College, Baruwa, in Ipaja Ayobo area of the state.

 

Confirming the sad incident to newsmen, a statement by the Lagos State Police Public Relations Officer (PPRO), DSP Bala Elkana stated that the Ipaja police division received a complaint on May 30, at about 6:50p.m from the school that one Favour Ekemedili, a senior secondary school student complained of severe stomachache and was rushed to the sickbay.

“The school bay immediately moved her to Agege General Hospital, which in turn referred her to Lagos State University Teaching Hospital where she was admitted for medical attention.

 

“The school authority contacted her parents. She died at about 6:00p.m. while receiving treatment. Her friends who witnessed the incident stated that the stomachache started when the girl took Fan juice.

“On a closer check on the bottle of the juice, it was discovered that the bottle contained Sniper chemicals, not juice.

“The chemical substances were taken for laboratory test. Homicide detectives from the State Criminal Investigation Department are investigating the case,” Elkana stated.

 

CULLED FROM:

 

https://www.crystalnewsng.com/2019/06/news/education/another-student-kills-self-in-lagos/

Will you allow your background to deter your success?

In a world whereby the definition of success has been relegated to acquisition of material and financial possession make many people to believe in the abberration of seen success as a means of flaunting there assets with many people going to the extreme of looking for ways to be great in life at the expense of others thereby encouraging the prosperity and propagation of criminality and vices.

And when the desire of such people are becoming infeasible,they end up seen and concluding that they are destined for failure thereby ending up as victims of suicide.

Recently,it was all over the media about the best candidate in last Joint Admission and Matriculation Board examination that a young lad in Lagos State had the highest score.

Reading through the report,I was busy looking for the name of the school that produced the celebrated genius and I was expecting the name of the school to be one of ivy leagues in Lagos but I was disappointed to discover that he is a product of a public school in a suburb of Lagos State.

While reading along,I discovered that he is a guy that had been known consistently for academic brilliance in Lagos State because he has attended many academic debates and competition with many accolades at his kitty.

The question is where are the private schools with high school fee rates that could only be afforded by the bourgeoisie of the Nigerian Society?

 

 

 

 

 

The story of this young lad is a signal to the fact that:
1.You don’t need to be convenient and comfortable to be successful.
2.Your class in the Society is not a determinant to your expected or desired success.
3.Every human being is wired for success.
4.Material and financial acquisition has no bearing with how Successful you will be.
5.Failure is universal.Success is universal.Failure and success has no geographical peculiarities.Anyone can fail.Anyone can succeed.
6.Failure is not an end but a means to an end.
7.Success is gradual not automatic.
8.Everyone has time and season.We reign in accordance to the programme of our destiny.

Success surfaces when you have the right information at your disposal with your readiness to sacrifice whatever it takes to invest the whole fibre of your being applying such information until you get the right outcome.

With this, suicide is an unjustifiable and shallow means of escape.It is only the coward and feeble minded that commits suicide.

While you are busy thinking about where you are and realised that you are wired and programmed for success.

Remember,

Never allow your background to put your back on the ground.

Arise and make the best of your life.

Be better.

Don’t be bitter.

 

Your ability to manage failures till you are successful makes the story of your success interesting and it will end up being a source of inspiration and motivation to others.

 

Success in any endeavor is real and possible to anyone who believes in the possibility of being successful in such an endeavor.

 

In this period of human existence whereby suicide is gradually becoming the order of the  day makes it saddening to believe that human being can be pushed to the edge by situation around resulting into depression that could be solved by the frustrated through suicide.

 

This might due to the fact that many people on earth lacked the basic understanding of the whole essence of their existence by believing that they have to be extremely desperate to be successful in life.

 

In conclusion, no matter the situations,the thought of suicide is never an option  the challenges of life.

 

©Mlstcommunications 2019

 

 

MLST CELEBRITY AND ENTERTAINMENT:VICTIM OF SUICIDE.REST IN PEACE–ZOMBIE BOY.

 

Rick Genest, the fashion icon and artist best known as Zombie Boy and Rico the Zombie, was found dead in his home on Aug. 1, 2018. He was 32 years old. Genest’s family told the Mirror that the model’s cause of death has yet to be determined, though some outlets originally reported it to be a suspected suicide.

 

Throughout his life, Genest had beaten the odds. The star dedicated his existence to artistic expression after being diagnosed with brain cancer as a teenager and followed an unconventional path to fame that led him in and out of homelessness. His monumental career was seemingly built on a series of near-misses and good luck. In 2010, Genest was discovered by Lady Gaga’s stylist, Nicola Formichetti, and subsequently cast in the singer’s video for “Born This Way,” which transformed him into an international star. He later served as the face of Jay-Z’s fashion label, Rocawear, landed a coveted L’Oreal campaign, and appeared alongside Keanu Reeves in 47 Ronin.

 

Despite his fame, Genest seemed most at home on the fringes of society, and he rejected traditional standards of beauty and success. “Zombies, to many, represent a pervasive xenophobia. As in my life, I was often out-casted, hated or misunderstood,” he told Wonderland in 2012.

 

From freak shows to the pages of Vogue, Genest never strayed far from his punk Montreal roots. Here’s the untold truth of Zombie Boy.

 

The tattoos came after beating cancer

 

In his Tedx talk, Genest admits that he started having blackouts as a teenager and was later diagnosed with a brain tumor located behind his optic nerve. He had two options: receive a surgery that would leave his face disfigured or receive a surgery that had only been successfully completed in North America once. If there was proof that Genest was destined to become a model, it’s the fact that he chose the risky surgery and survived. According to the Daily Star, nearly 50 percent of his brain was removed.

 

Genest claimed his surgery made him think about the fragility of life and consider the type of person he wanted to become (hint: that person was a zombie). Shortly after treatment, the model got his first tattoo: a pirate’s skull and crossbones inked on his 16th birthday. According The Guardian, he gradually commissioned more tattoos, until he met Frank Lewis, who helped him create the idea of a full-body tattoo with the theme of a rotting corpse. At age 21, he had that infamous skull inked on his face with zero apprehensions.

 

“Everyone has a different idea of what is beautiful,” he told the Evening Standard in 2012. “It’s not as if it’s a real corpse. It’s art. I’m a work in progress. I like being a freak. That’s my ambition.”

 

He was dubbed ‘Zombie’ as a teen runaway

 

In his TEDx talk, Genest admitted that he felt like an outcast most of his life. He was raised in a strict, religious family that supposedly wouldn’t let him participate in most school celebrations. He wasn’t even allowed to carve pumpkins at Halloween because his parents saw it as a Pagan ritual. He fell into the Goth crowd in high school (which he claimed was “the least favorite of all subcultures”) and eventually had a falling out with his father that prompted him to run away from home. Genest became a 17-year-old runaway living in squats and on the streets of Montreal. That’s when he says he earned the nickname “Zombie.”

 

Genest told the Evening Standard that he was given the nickname from fellow street-dwellers who found out about his brain surgery, though he said it also may have something to do with his taste in metal music (via the Daily Star). He wasn’t officially dubbed “Zombie Boy” until 2008, when the UK magazine Bizarre found his images on MySpace and asked him to do a photo shoot. According to The New York Times, the magazine printed the name “Zombie Boy” alongside his pictures, and he went with it.

 

Homelessness let him live in the moment

 

Even after fnding fame, Genest maintained his nomadic lifestyle. In an interview with Wonderland, the star admitted that he was “living out of [his] backpack; working odd jobs, meeting cool people…” While many find the idea of homelessness frightening, Genest said it allowed him to remain entirely in the moment. He was living like a pirate or one of the lost boys from Hook, which he cited as an influence.

 

He talked to the Evening Standard about the five or so years he spent on the streets dodging cops and enjoying the Montreal punk scene. “It was awesome. We were living on the streets, sleeping on the roofs, hitchhiking from city to city, from party to party,” he said. “We were young and living from day to day.”

 

To make ends meet, Genest had a few unique jobs. He squeegeed cars for cash and also performed in a “traveling circus-freak show” called Lucifer’s Blasphemous Mad Macabre Torture Carnival (via WWD). As part of the performance, he had to lie on a bed of nails.

 

Getting to his first runway show wasn’t easy

 

Genest’s path to fame was unlikely. If it wasn’t for Lady Gaga’s stylist, Nicola Formichetti, Zombie Boy may never have left Montreal. In fact, Zombie Boy reportedly couldn’t even get a passport because he racked up $10,000 to 20,000 worth of fines for sleeping on the street while he was homeless.

 

In an interview with Hint, Formichetti admits that he was a longtime fan of Genest. He’d spotted an image of the model on Google and looked him up on Facebook after realizing his tattoos weren’t just makeup. Formichetti, who was serving as an artistic director for French fashion house Mugler, wanted Genest to walk in its debut men’s collection. Formichetti paid Genest’s massive fines in order to fly him to Paris for the show.

 

“I remember thinking I have to do this, I just have a gut feeling, I have to work with this guy. Everyone said he’s a freak, why would I want to do that to a luxury brand? I didn’t listen to anyone and just went,” Formichetti said, adding, “It took him so long to tell us [he was homeless]. Oh my god, he was so emotional. He was crying and saying how this was going to change his life. It was a beautiful moment.”

 

Formichetti thought Genest’s look was so inspiring that he decided to transform the collection to reflect the model’s dark aesthetic.

 

He put American Horror Story in some pretty hot water

Being faced with a massive, costly lawsuit is possibly the only thing scarier than a season of FX’s Emmy-winning series American Horror Story. Unfortunately, the network had to learn this the hard way when actor Evan Peters’ makeup closely resembled Genest’s copyrighted tattoos.

 

Even casual fans of American Horror Story probably remember Evan Peters’ striking Season 1 look. In the climax of Murder House, Peters dons corpse makeup during a haunting school shooting scene. According to The Hollywood Reporter, Fox worked on a settlement with Genest to avoid a full-fledged lawsuit over the look, which could have cost the network hundreds of thousands of dollars in copyright infringement charges and editing to obscure Peters’ skeletal makeup in future airings. The two parties came to an undisclosed agreement in October 2012.

 

Genest told the magazine, “…I was not approached by Fox to license what I consider to be the use of my likeness or my copyrighted body art in American Horror Story.” He added, “However, I understand that there was no intent to connect me with the character in their show, and I am pleased that I have come to a resolution of this matter with Fox.”

 

He avoided public transportation because of his appearance

 

Genest may have been friends with Lady Gaga and turned heads in the pages of Vogue, but turning heads in public gets kind of old. Not every reaction to his tattoos was kind. Genest told the Mirror that people generally left him alone, but “old people” tended to get bent out of shape. For this reason, he found it really hard to use public transportation.

 

“Not all taxis stop for me even if there is a light on. It can be hard to catch a ride sometimes,” he said. “I don’t use transportation because everyone stares at me and their eyeballs fall out.”

 

Despite this, Genest claimed he only regretted a single tattoo (though, he wouldn’t say which one that was.) After all, his polarizing look was the reason behind his success — and he wanted even more body modifications to bolster his ghoulish appearance. The model told Wonderland that he hoped to sharpen his teeth like a reptile and tattoo his eyes green.

 

Dermablend discovered him on the streets – literally

 

 

Genest spent a lot of his time in the Montreal streets, so it only makes sense that he was discovered literally on the street by L’Oreal, who used him in its “Go Beyond The Cover” campaign for its Dermablend brand.

 

In an interview with Makeup.com, Genest revealed that he was randomly spotted walking down the street in Montreal by Dermablend’s marketing director, who approached Genest and asked him if he wanted to come back to the studio and shoot an ad. Genest agreed, and to the studio they went, but it was quite an undertaking.

 

The process of covering up an entire body of tattoos is — like you’d expect — extremely tedious. Three makeup artists reportedly spent more than four hours covering Zombie Boy’s body with Dermablend Leg and Body Cover. According a behind-the-scenes look, it took about four tubes before the job was done, but the results were so captivating that Genest became a spokesman for the brand.

 

He was self-financing his music career

 

Genest may be most famous for his extensive modeling work, but he also launched a music career in 2015. Much like his campaign with Dermablend, it was a total fluke that worked out. Genest met his co-collaborator, Mike Riggs, the former guitarist for Rob Zombie, by accident.

 

In an interview with Bloody Disgusting, Riggs admitted that he sought out an artist called Zomboy while he was working on material for the next Scum of the Earth album. He contacted Zomboy’s managers and the artist agreed to collaborate. Unfortunately, he wasn’t actually talking to Zomboy — he was talking to Zombie Boy. Riggs decided to go with it anyway. Why not?

 

Genest had embodied a do-it-yourself punk attitude from his days on the Montreal streets. This prompted him to self-finance his eponymous music project with Riggs (via Scene 360). Riggs claimed the album was darker than his usual music, surrealistic and “nightmarish at times.”

 

Unfortunately, if you want to hear the album, you’re pretty much out of luck. It’s unclear if anything beyond a medley of six recorded songs has or will be released.

 

He’s a two-time Guinness World Record holder

 

Genest’s striking tattoos didn’t just land him in the pages of numerous fashion magazines — it landed him in The Guinness Book of World Records. Zombie Boy currently holds two world records: one for the most insects tattooed on the body and one for the most bones tattooed on the body.

 

According to Guinness World Records, Genest had 176 insects tattooed across his arms, torso, back, and head, including cockroaches crawling up his neck, a centipede wrapped around his ear, spiders on the back of his head and spiderwebs near his orbital bone. As for the other record? He has 139 human bones tattooed on his body.

 

Surprisingly, Genest doesn’t hold the record for most tattooed man. That title belongs to Lucky Rich, who initially had colorful tattoos across his whole body, but later covered 100 percent of his skin in black ink (including his gums and eyelids — ouch!). He’s now getting a third round of white designs over the black tattoos.

 

Fame never changed him

Most of us expect the models gracing the pages of Vanity Fair and Vogue to have a nice car — or at least any car — but Genest wasn’t your average celebrity. Though he put his days on the streets behind him, the star lived in a modest, fourth-floor apartment in Montreal.

 

“I still don’t have any material possessions,” he told the Mirror in 2016. “I live in the same place I always lived by the train tracks, I don’t have a washing machine or a car. I barely have lightbulbs. I’m happy with my bike, toaster and microwave. I’m a drifter and always will be. I have enough to tip my waitress and that’s fine with me.”

 

Instead of possessions, Genest focused his effort on his friends, family, and paying it forward. He reconnected with his mother and described their relationship as “closer than ever.” According to Entertainment Tonight Canada, he began working with The Home Depot Canada’s Orange Door initiative to help support homeless youth. He also continued to support the Welcome Hall Mission, a homeless shelter he visited as a teen (via The Washington Post).

 

 

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