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BUILD A WORLD IN TANDEM WITH YOUR WORD.

 

As your word plants your world,so your world also determines your word.

 

A different world speaks different word.

 

Every world is created by a particular word and every word is related to a particular world.

 

This is as a result of the kind of exposure and experience available at our disposal.

 

A mind or a personality residents in the United States of America can not speak the same word someone in Nigeria is speaking.

 

Presently,a Chinese citizen will dwell his or her mind on Coronavirus, though other nations of the world might be feeling the heat of this epidemic but someone resident in Wuhan Province will speak more about it than any other person in the world.

 

No one can leave his or her life out of the world around him or her.

 

This is the reason why you need to check the kind of world any of your acquaintance or colleagues is living in before you become closely knitted with such personality.

 

If you fail in knowing this,this might affect your relationship because this will affect reasoning and views and no matter how much you invested into such relationship,it will crash.

 

A smooth relationship is the one that is build out of a world that speaks the same language in terms of views and reasoning.

 

You cannot expect someone that spent his or her formative years in the slums to do without envy,pride,arrogance and suspicion to speak the same word as someone that live his or her life in an environment whereby protection of human dignity,love and respect is the order of the day to become cheap to the extent that what people are saying about him or her will become a subject of concern.

 

In conclusion,ensure that you put yourself in a world that is in tandem with your word.

 

Not every relationship is worthy of your time and resources.

 

Build a class for yourself.

 

Stop giving your space to riff-raffs.

 

Save your attention and space from being plagued by riff raffs.

 

 

©mlstcommunications 2020

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Don’t miss this.

There is a way dreams and visions can be fulfilled.

 

I have been on this book with the title years ago but I was unable to get it done and bring it to conclusion.

 

I shelved it and put it aside till now when the passion and what is needed to get it done is available.

 

This how you and I should handle some issues in our lives.

 

There are issues in life that the best way to handle it and get solutions to them is to be patient by putting them aside for a while before getting it done.

 

Therefore, that issue bothering you right now might not warrant you rushing,it might just need you been cautious about been calm leaving it to the natural forces of time and season to get it done.

 

Without any iota of doubt,time and seasons are natural forces that determines our fates while on earthly pedestal.Art Event Flyer (1)

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IF YOU CAN BE PATIENT—(10 minutes read)

I have perfected my plan a day before the D-day. I have imagined and sketched my itinerary for the next day consciously aware of what is needed to be done the second day without any mistake or error. My plan for the next day is to find my way out to the browsing café to engage in updating my blog space. I already mapped out the internet or browsing provider in my vicinity that I will patronize.

 

Alas, the D-day came, in the afternoon, I moved out by taking a bike but when I got to the office of the internet service provider after I alighted from the bike I took, to my complete consternation, the office was under lock and key.

 

Deep down, I was disappointed, and I was boiling with rage and fury because this is a dent to my plan that might end up scattering into pieces what I have imagined laying hand upon to end up in futility.

 

As I noticed this, I held my calmness and candor but inside of me was the flow of total dejection and disappointment that I am managing to curtail and control.

 

While musing over this and while nursing my pain and wound, I decided to just start strolling down for me to maximize the energy that I will be using to stroll down the street to curb the waves of anger that has started overwhelming the fabrics of my being. I used this as a tool to vent my anger and disappointment, but I was confused to an extent because I was bothered about getting an alternative in the form of getting another internet or browsing provider within my vicinity.

 

At a point, when I got to the prime of thinking about an alternative, I decided to just stroll down to my daughters’ creche to take her back home so that I will just retire home for the day to have my peace because my dream for the day has been shattered without any hope of making something meaningful out of my laid-out plan for the day.

 

At the point of giving up, I got conscious and sensitive of the fact that there is a internet or browsing center that I could faintly recollect the actual location, but I realized that anytime I am coming back home from work in the evening, I always observe this place even though I wasn’t sure whether I am right or wrong.

 

Immediately, I hopped a bike again and moved over to the area where my mind was. After few minutes of being conveyed on the back, I got to the area and I was able to locate the office and when I got there, my plan, hope and aspiration for the day saw the light of the day without any form of problem and hassle.

 

In real life situation, many passed through similar situation daily whereby many plans are being made but it always ends up in futility that will end up in frustration caused by the disappointment that arise from our inability to fulfill whatever our plan for the moment might be,

 

It is human and reasonable to feel disappointed and dejected when such happen because it is always accompanied with waste of resources and material that could be quite costly and expensive.

 

Amid this condition, we became emotional and cocky to the extent that we allow our sense of reasoning to be blocked and clogged with waves of emotion.

 

Being emotional at this point is understandable, reasonable and human.

 

This is  how the expression of our feelings ought to be in a situation like this.

 

Nevertheless, what this situation might be, it is quite expedient that a mature mind will look beyond these waves of emotion and allow sense of reasoning to take control of the situation on ground.

 

The control of our emotion entails and requires nothing but a balance view and analysis of the situation on ground by suspending our emotion and allowing reasoning to take control of the situation on ground.

 

It is at the point of giving our sense of reasoning to take over that we will be able to have a clearer and a balanced view of the situation that might end up allowing us to have a grip of the situation at hand which might just require nothing but an extensive level of thinking and appraisal that will trigger the needed solution that will make us to achieve whatever our plan might be at a particular moment.

 

During this form of experience, patience becomes a virtue that is needed by anyone to make something meaningful out of the situation.

 

 

The absence of patience will make the situation on ground to become complex and difficult thereby preventing needed solution to fizzle out from the mind of those who are concern.

 

Patience should take the center stage and it is through patience that the concerned will be able to think deeply to get the needed solution to the plan that is on the verge of being unsuccessful.

 

Every plan imagined becomes achievable accompanied with the exhibition and reflection of the inherent beauty of the plan when it can be platformed on patience.

 

It is patience that command needed success that will make the content and concept behind any plan to be propelled to the realm of successful fulfilment.

 

No one should dream and talk about success when patience is absent as a virtue.

 

Success and patience go hand in hand rubbing each other hands together for the needed plan to become achievable and attainable.

 

No patience, no success.

 

Hence, plan should not be imagined and mapped out for success when the needed patience for it to materialized is absent.

 

The presence of patience makes every imagined and mapped out plans to become successful.

 

Those who desire to be successful in life must maximize the inherent virtue of patience that is time sapping as a needed resource for the attainment of their imagined and mapped out plans.

 

Instead of being emotional, disappointed and down- casted, it is better to exercise patience. Though, the result of being patient might be time sapping and slow, but patience helps in a great way to ensure, attract and command success cheaply without any constraints.

 

If only you can be patient, your mapped out plans will become successful in the process of time.

 

 

©mlst media 2018

 

 

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HOW SHE MOTIVATED ME.(10 minutes read)

It was early morning on the 3rd of September 2018, I decided to observe an early morning road show that will only involve long distance endurance trek channeled towards shedding some ounce of fat that has accumulated in adding to my weight since everybody around me kept complaining about the bloating nature of current physique.

In spite the early morning drizzling, I despise this disturbance and I view it as a blessing in disguise because I believed that the coolness of the weather will be a source of strength to me in going a long way in keeping myself fit by the road work I am embarking on.

While I was busy with myself trekking on the high way, I was lost and carried away, but I was enjoying and basking in the euphoria of the showers of rain and my ability to fulfill my aspiration in embarking on a body fitting exercise that I can handle on my own.

While I was on the highway, at a point, she passed me.

She was fully kitted with her sneakers and joggers with vest on her body. She jogged passed me and immediately I raised up my head and I observed that she is a lady and she maintained her pace jogging while I was busy trekking.

Immediately, I remembered the popular parlance that says what a man can do, a woman can do it better. At this point, it was a woman that is doing what a man cannot do and I was challenged into motivation accompanied with my decision to turn the table around.

What a woman can do, a man can do it better.

Immediately, I double up and started jogging with one leap after another.

What I thought I couldn’t handle became what I was able to do when I saw a lady doing it.

Despite my decision to change from trekking to jogging which was motivated and inspired by her, she was obvious that she is the source of my motivation because she was a little distance ahead of me and I was at her back.

 

There is no way she could know that she has been a source of inspiration and motivation to a stranger early in the morning through her effort to get herself better in fitness.

She might think that she is just on her own trying to get better, but she didn’t know that her effort in shaping her physique has made another person to see good reasons in shaping himself.

This is how our life ought to be at any point in time. We are created to be a source of help and a source of hope to others. Even, when we are unaware of the fact that so many people are gaining and benefitting from our deeds.

We are supposed to be found doing good at every point in time so that people that we did not know or even expected could end up referring to our deeds even when we are no more around.

A meaningful life is birthed when we are not living alone but our living triggers a kind of inspiration that would catapult others to become better by achieving their set goals while in existence on earth.

We should not be oblivious of the fact that so many people are in the valley of perdition and destruction. All they need is a hand that will pull them out of the miry clay that they have been enmeshed with.

Without any gain saying, you could be that hands of help and hope that are needed to salvage humanity from going into extinction because our world needs more flag-bearers and touch-bearers that will end up shinning light that will displace the gross darkness that entire humanity is enmeshed with.

It might be a little form of kindness, love, patience and help that will end up becoming a source of motivation and inspiration to others.

We should endeavor to understand that while we are busy doing good, we are always oblivious of the zillion of people looking at us but the effect of our goodwill might be enough to turn around the lot of such people without you knowing the extent of your impart on the life of those looking up to you.

Hence, it is good to be good at any point in time.

It is nice to be nice to people around us.

The kind of help we render might be what is needed to salvage and elevate others.

It might be the only solution that would be available in making others to realize the potential in them, thereby fulfilling the purpose of God in their life.

With this, it placed a deep level of responsibility on all of us to be conscious and sensitive in making a concerted effort in adding value and contributing our quota in making the life of other people better no matter how little the contribution might be.

No contribution targeted in making the life of other people better is a waste no matter how insignificant and inconsequential it may be.

The littleness in us maximized as a form of contribution to the life of others might be the greatness other people are relying upon for them to achieve their purpose in life.

Do not fold your hands and watch people languishing in penury and abject poverty, do not expect the needy and the indigent to start looking for you before you take a step in helping them. It is your responsibility to rise to their needs by looking for them and make them part of your life.

You start living until the poor and the needy become part and parcel of your life.

If the biography of your life is chronicled without reference to the indigent, you have wasted your lifetime on earth.

The essence of your living is for the needy and the poor to have a life that is meaningful.

If you have been lagging in giving a hand of help to the needy and the indigent, you have failed, and you are unworthy to be reference as human.

Humanity is all about being an eye to the blind, a mouth to the dumb and an ear to the deaf.

Be a cloth to the naked.

Be a shelter to the destitute.

Be a respite to the restless.

Be a bridge to the deserted.

Be a food to the hungry.

If you can become all this, the world will be better off and lamentation of pain and pangs in the entire world will be a thing of the past.

This is how she motivated me.

This is how she inspired me.

 

©mlstmedia 2018

 

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HOW SHE MOTIVATED ME.(10 minutes read)

It was early morning on the 3rd of September 2018, I decided to observe an early morning road show that will only involve long distance endurance trek channeled towards shedding some ounce of fat that has accumulated in adding to my weight since everybody around me kept complaining about the bloating nature of current physique.

In spite the early morning drizzling, I despise this disturbance and I view it as a blessing in disguise because I believed that the coolness of the weather will be a source of strength to me in going a long way in keeping myself fit by the road work I am embarking on.

While I was busy with myself trekking on the high way, I was lost and carried away, but I was enjoying and basking in the euphoria of the showers of rain and my ability to fulfill my aspiration in embarking on a body fitting exercise that I can handle on my own.

While I was on the highway, at a point, she passed me.

She was fully kitted with her sneakers and joggers with vest on her body. She jogged passed me and immediately I raised up my head and I observed that she is a lady and she maintained her pace jogging while I was busy trekking.

Immediately, I remembered the popular parlance that says what a man can do, a woman can do it better. At this point, it was a woman that is doing what a man cannot do and I was challenged into motivation accompanied with my decision to turn the table around.

What a woman can do, a man can do it better.

Immediately, I double up and started jogging with one leap after another.

What I thought I couldn’t handle became what I was able to do when I saw a lady doing it.

Despite my decision to change from trekking to jogging which was motivated and inspired by her, she was obvious that she is the source of my motivation because she was a little distance ahead of me and I was at her back.

 

There is no way she could know that she has been a source of inspiration and motivation to a stranger early in the morning through her effort to get herself better in fitness.

She might think that she is just on her own trying to get better, but she didn’t know that her effort in shaping her physique has made another person to see good reasons in shaping himself.

This is how our life ought to be at any point in time. We are created to be a source of help and a source of hope to others. Even, when we are unaware of the fact that so many people are gaining and benefitting from our deeds.

We are supposed to be found doing good at every point in time so that people that we did not know or even expected could end up referring to our deeds even when we are no more around.

A meaningful life is birthed when we are not living alone but our living triggers a kind of inspiration that would catapult others to become better by achieving their set goals while in existence on earth.

We should not be oblivious of the fact that so many people are in the valley of perdition and destruction. All they need is a hand that will pull them out of the miry clay that they have been enmeshed with.

Without any gain saying, you could be that hands of help and hope that are needed to salvage humanity from going into extinction because our world needs more flag-bearers and touch-bearers that will end up shinning light that will displace the gross darkness that entire humanity is enmeshed with.

It might be a little form of kindness, love, patience and help that will end up becoming a source of motivation and inspiration to others.

We should endeavor to understand that while we are busy doing good, we are always oblivious of the zillion of people looking at us but the effect of our goodwill might be enough to turn around the lot of such people without you knowing the extent of your impart on the life of those looking up to you.

Hence, it is good to be good at any point in time.

It is nice to be nice to people around us.

The kind of help we render might be what is needed to salvage and elevate others.

It might be the only solution that would be available in making others to realize the potential in them, thereby fulfilling the purpose of God in their life.

With this, it placed a deep level of responsibility on all of us to be conscious and sensitive in making a concerted effort in adding value and contributing our quota in making the life of other people better no matter how little the contribution might be.

No contribution targeted in making the life of other people better is a waste no matter how insignificant and inconsequential it may be.

The littleness in us maximized as a form of contribution to the life of others might be the greatness other people are relying upon for them to achieve their purpose in life.

Do not fold your hands and watch people languishing in penury and abject poverty, do not expect the needy and the indigent to start looking for you before you take a step in helping them. It is your responsibility to rise to their needs by looking for them and make them part of your life.

You start living until the poor and the needy become part and parcel of your life.

If the biography of your life is chronicled without reference to the indigent, you have wasted your lifetime on earth.

The essence of your living is for the needy and the poor to have a life that is meaningful.

If you have been lagging in giving a hand of help to the needy and the indigent, you have failed, and you are unworthy to be reference as human.

Humanity is all about being an eye to the blind, a mouth to the dumb and an ear to the deaf.

Be a cloth to the naked.

Be a shelter to the destitute.

Be a respite to the restless.

Be a bridge to the deserted.

Be a food to the hungry.

If you can become all this, the world will be better off and lamentation of pain and pangs in the entire world will be a thing of the past.

This is how she motivated me.

This is how she inspired me.

 

©mlstmedia 2018

 

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HOW SHE MOTIVATED ME.(10 minutes read)

It was early morning on the 3rd of September 2018, I decided to observe an early morning road show that will only involve long distance endurance trek channeled towards shedding some ounce of fat that has accumulated in adding to my weight since everybody around me kept complaining about the bloating nature of current physique.

In spite the early morning drizzling, I despise this disturbance and I view it as a blessing in disguise because I believed that the coolness of the weather will be a source of strength to me in going a long way in keeping myself fit by the road work I am embarking on.

While I was busy with myself trekking on the high way, I was lost and carried away, but I was enjoying and basking in the euphoria of the showers of rain and my ability to fulfill my aspiration in embarking on a body fitting exercise that I can handle on my own.

While I was on the highway, at a point, she passed me.

She was fully kitted with her sneakers and joggers with vest on her body. She jogged passed me and immediately I raised up my head and I observed that she is a lady and she maintained her pace jogging while I was busy trekking.

Immediately, I remembered the popular parlance that says what a man can do, a woman can do it better. At this point, it was a woman that is doing what a man cannot do and I was challenged into motivation accompanied with my decision to turn the table around.

What a woman can do, a man can do it better.

Immediately, I double up and started jogging with one leap after another.

What I thought I couldn’t handle became what I was able to do when I saw a lady doing it.

Despite my decision to change from trekking to jogging which was motivated and inspired by her, she was obvious that she is the source of my motivation because she was a little distance ahead of me and I was at her back.

 

There is no way she could know that she has been a source of inspiration and motivation to a stranger early in the morning through her effort to get herself better in fitness.

She might think that she is just on her own trying to get better, but she didn’t know that her effort in shaping her physique has made another person to see good reasons in shaping himself.

This is how our life ought to be at any point in time. We are created to be a source of help and a source of hope to others. Even, when we are unaware of the fact that so many people are gaining and benefitting from our deeds.

We are supposed to be found doing good at every point in time so that people that we did not know or even expected could end up referring to our deeds even when we are no more around.

A meaningful life is birthed when we are not living alone but our living triggers a kind of inspiration that would catapult others to become better by achieving their set goals while in existence on earth.

We should not be oblivious of the fact that so many people are in the valley of perdition and destruction. All they need is a hand that will pull them out of the miry clay that they have been enmeshed with.

Without any gain saying, you could be that hands of help and hope that are needed to salvage humanity from going into extinction because our world needs more flag-bearers and touch-bearers that will end up shinning light that will displace the gross darkness that entire humanity is enmeshed with.

It might be a little form of kindness, love, patience and help that will end up becoming a source of motivation and inspiration to others.

We should endeavor to understand that while we are busy doing good, we are always oblivious of the zillion of people looking at us but the effect of our goodwill might be enough to turn around the lot of such people without you knowing the extent of your impart on the life of those looking up to you.

Hence, it is good to be good at any point in time.

It is nice to be nice to people around us.

The kind of help we render might be what is needed to salvage and elevate others.

It might be the only solution that would be available in making others to realize the potential in them, thereby fulfilling the purpose of God in their life.

With this, it placed a deep level of responsibility on all of us to be conscious and sensitive in making a concerted effort in adding value and contributing our quota in making the life of other people better no matter how little the contribution might be.

No contribution targeted in making the life of other people better is a waste no matter how insignificant and inconsequential it may be.

The littleness in us maximized as a form of contribution to the life of others might be the greatness other people are relying upon for them to achieve their purpose in life.

Do not fold your hands and watch people languishing in penury and abject poverty, do not expect the needy and the indigent to start looking for you before you take a step in helping them. It is your responsibility to rise to their needs by looking for them and make them part of your life.

You start living until the poor and the needy become part and parcel of your life.

If the biography of your life is chronicled without reference to the indigent, you have wasted your lifetime on earth.

The essence of your living is for the needy and the poor to have a life that is meaningful.

If you have been lagging in giving a hand of help to the needy and the indigent, you have failed, and you are unworthy to be reference as human.

Humanity is all about being an eye to the blind, a mouth to the dumb and an ear to the deaf.

Be a cloth to the naked.

Be a shelter to the destitute.

Be a respite to the restless.

Be a bridge to the deserted.

Be a food to the hungry.

If you can become all this, the world will be better off and lamentation of pain and pangs in the entire world will be a thing of the past.

This is how she motivated me.

This is how she inspired me.

 

©mlstmedia 2018

 

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IF YOU CAN BE PATIENT—(10 minutes read)

I have perfected my plan a day before the D-day. I have imagined and sketched my itinerary for the next day consciously aware of what is needed to be done the second day without any mistake or error. My plan for the next day is to find my way out to the browsing café to engage in updating my blog space. I already mapped out the internet or browsing provider in my vicinity that I will patronize.

 

Alas, the D-day came, in the afternoon, I moved out by taking a bike but when I got to the office of the internet service provider after I alighted from the bike I took, to my complete consternation, the office was under lock and key.

 

Deep down, I was disappointed, and I was boiling with rage and fury because this is a dent to my plan that might end up scattering into pieces what I have imagined laying hand upon to end up in futility.

 

As I noticed this, I held my calmness and candor but inside of me was the flow of total dejection and disappointment that I am managing to curtail and control.

 

While musing over this and while nursing my pain and wound, I decided to just start strolling down for me to maximize the energy that I will be using to stroll down the street to curb the waves of anger that has started overwhelming the fabrics of my being. I used this as a tool to vent my anger and disappointment, but I was confused to an extent because I was bothered about getting an alternative in the form of getting another internet or browsing provider within my vicinity.

 

At a point, when I got to the prime of thinking about an alternative, I decided to just stroll down to my daughters’ creche to take her back home so that I will just retire home for the day to have my peace because my dream for the day has been shattered without any hope of making something meaningful out of my laid-out plan for the day.

 

At the point of giving up, I got conscious and sensitive of the fact that there is a internet or browsing center that I could faintly recollect the actual location, but I realized that anytime I am coming back home from work in the evening, I always observe this place even though I wasn’t sure whether I am right or wrong.

 

Immediately, I hopped a bike again and moved over to the area where my mind was. After few minutes of being conveyed on the back, I got to the area and I was able to locate the office and when I got there, my plan, hope and aspiration for the day saw the light of the day without any form of problem and hassle.

 

In real life situation, many passed through similar situation daily whereby many plans are being made but it always ends up in futility that will end up in frustration caused by the disappointment that arise from our inability to fulfill whatever our plan for the moment might be,

 

It is human and reasonable to feel disappointed and dejected when such happen because it is always accompanied with waste of resources and material that could be quite costly and expensive.

 

Amid this condition, we became emotional and cocky to the extent that we allow our sense of reasoning to be blocked and clogged with waves of emotion.

 

Being emotional at this point is understandable, reasonable and human.

 

This is  how the expression of our feelings ought to be in a situation like this.

 

Nevertheless, what this situation might be, it is quite expedient that a mature mind will look beyond these waves of emotion and allow sense of reasoning to take control of the situation on ground.

 

The control of our emotion entails and requires nothing but a balance view and analysis of the situation on ground by suspending our emotion and allowing reasoning to take control of the situation on ground.

 

It is at the point of giving our sense of reasoning to take over that we will be able to have a clearer and a balanced view of the situation that might end up allowing us to have a grip of the situation at hand which might just require nothing but an extensive level of thinking and appraisal that will trigger the needed solution that will make us to achieve whatever our plan might be at a particular moment.

 

During this form of experience, patience becomes a virtue that is needed by anyone to make something meaningful out of the situation.

 

 

The absence of patience will make the situation on ground to become complex and difficult thereby preventing needed solution to fizzle out from the mind of those who are concern.

 

Patience should take the center stage and it is through patience that the concerned will be able to think deeply to get the needed solution to the plan that is on the verge of being unsuccessful.

 

Every plan imagined becomes achievable accompanied with the exhibition and reflection of the inherent beauty of the plan when it can be platformed on patience.

 

It is patience that command needed success that will make the content and concept behind any plan to be propelled to the realm of successful fulfilment.

 

No one should dream and talk about success when patience is absent as a virtue.

 

Success and patience go hand in hand rubbing each other hands together for the needed plan to become achievable and attainable.

 

No patience, no success.

 

Hence, plan should not be imagined and mapped out for success when the needed patience for it to materialized is absent.

 

The presence of patience makes every imagined and mapped out plans to become successful.

 

Those who desire to be successful in life must maximize the inherent virtue of patience that is time sapping as a needed resource for the attainment of their imagined and mapped out plans.

 

Instead of being emotional, disappointed and down- casted, it is better to exercise patience. Though, the result of being patient might be time sapping and slow, but patience helps in a great way to ensure, attract and command success cheaply without any constraints.

 

If only you can be patient, your mapped out plans will become successful in the process of time.

 

 

©mlst media 2018

 

 

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HOW SHE MOTIVATED ME.(10 minutes read)

It was early morning on the 3rd of September 2018, I decided to observe an early morning road show that will only involve long distance endurance trek channeled towards shedding some ounce of fat that has accumulated in adding to my weight since everybody around me kept complaining about the bloating nature of current physique.

In spite the early morning drizzling, I despise this disturbance and I view it as a blessing in disguise because I believed that the coolness of the weather will be a source of strength to me in going a long way in keeping myself fit by the road work I am embarking on.

While I was busy with myself trekking on the high way, I was lost and carried away, but I was enjoying and basking in the euphoria of the showers of rain and my ability to fulfill my aspiration in embarking on a body fitting exercise that I can handle on my own.

While I was on the highway, at a point, she passed me.

She was fully kitted with her sneakers and joggers with vest on her body. She jogged passed me and immediately I raised up my head and I observed that she is a lady and she maintained her pace jogging while I was busy trekking.

Immediately, I remembered the popular parlance that says what a man can do, a woman can do it better. At this point, it was a woman that is doing what a man cannot do and I was challenged into motivation accompanied with my decision to turn the table around.

What a woman can do, a man can do it better.

Immediately, I double up and started jogging with one leap after another.

What I thought I couldn’t handle became what I was able to do when I saw a lady doing it.

Despite my decision to change from trekking to jogging which was motivated and inspired by her, she was obvious that she is the source of my motivation because she was a little distance ahead of me and I was at her back.

 

There is no way she could know that she has been a source of inspiration and motivation to a stranger early in the morning through her effort to get herself better in fitness.

She might think that she is just on her own trying to get better, but she didn’t know that her effort in shaping her physique has made another person to see good reasons in shaping himself.

This is how our life ought to be at any point in time. We are created to be a source of help and a source of hope to others. Even, when we are unaware of the fact that so many people are gaining and benefitting from our deeds.

We are supposed to be found doing good at every point in time so that people that we did not know or even expected could end up referring to our deeds even when we are no more around.

A meaningful life is birthed when we are not living alone but our living triggers a kind of inspiration that would catapult others to become better by achieving their set goals while in existence on earth.

We should not be oblivious of the fact that so many people are in the valley of perdition and destruction. All they need is a hand that will pull them out of the miry clay that they have been enmeshed with.

Without any gain saying, you could be that hands of help and hope that are needed to salvage humanity from going into extinction because our world needs more flag-bearers and touch-bearers that will end up shinning light that will displace the gross darkness that entire humanity is enmeshed with.

It might be a little form of kindness, love, patience and help that will end up becoming a source of motivation and inspiration to others.

We should endeavor to understand that while we are busy doing good, we are always oblivious of the zillion of people looking at us but the effect of our goodwill might be enough to turn around the lot of such people without you knowing the extent of your impart on the life of those looking up to you.

Hence, it is good to be good at any point in time.

It is nice to be nice to people around us.

The kind of help we render might be what is needed to salvage and elevate others.

It might be the only solution that would be available in making others to realize the potential in them, thereby fulfilling the purpose of God in their life.

With this, it placed a deep level of responsibility on all of us to be conscious and sensitive in making a concerted effort in adding value and contributing our quota in making the life of other people better no matter how little the contribution might be.

No contribution targeted in making the life of other people better is a waste no matter how insignificant and inconsequential it may be.

The littleness in us maximized as a form of contribution to the life of others might be the greatness other people are relying upon for them to achieve their purpose in life.

Do not fold your hands and watch people languishing in penury and abject poverty, do not expect the needy and the indigent to start looking for you before you take a step in helping them. It is your responsibility to rise to their needs by looking for them and make them part of your life.

You start living until the poor and the needy become part and parcel of your life.

If the biography of your life is chronicled without reference to the indigent, you have wasted your lifetime on earth.

The essence of your living is for the needy and the poor to have a life that is meaningful.

If you have been lagging in giving a hand of help to the needy and the indigent, you have failed, and you are unworthy to be reference as human.

Humanity is all about being an eye to the blind, a mouth to the dumb and an ear to the deaf.

Be a cloth to the naked.

Be a shelter to the destitute.

Be a respite to the restless.

Be a bridge to the deserted.

Be a food to the hungry.

If you can become all this, the world will be better off and lamentation of pain and pangs in the entire world will be a thing of the past.

This is how she motivated me.

This is how she inspired me.

 

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WHY CAN’T YOU RUN AFTER YOUR DREAM?—(10 MINUTES READ).

I was on transit recently in a bus one beautiful morning and there was this young man who sat just close to me.He started a converstaion and we got talking in the course of the long journey.He obviously was an extrovert, so it wasn’t difficult for him to pick up a chat.

 

Somehow I got to know he was thirty-three years old sometimes after that day.He was keeping my company with all his gists.

 

And then, he asked me about what I am doing for a living.Gladly,I told him what I was into at first and then smiled with greater hope for years to come.

 

Suddenly,he kept mute and his countenance changed and went down.

 

Hi!

 

You aren’t saying anything….I said.

 

He took a deep breath and sighed…

 

Hmmm….could this be what people refer to as “enemy of progress”.I thought.

 

But he doesn’t know me,I pondered.

 

It was glaring that something was wrong at that point.I needed not a soothsayers to tell me.

 

But I chose to keep quiet.Then I turned to the window side and avoided anymore talk.

 

Few minutes after I turned, he called for my attention, and then he later opened up to me that he was frustrated with his career choice.He made it clear that where he was at that point was as a wrong decision made back in high school by trying to be where his friends and colleagues were or doing what they wanted.

 

According to him,he wasn’t satisfied, he was struggling with such inner pain and the height of it all was that he had just made a decision to start all over again from sciences to arts and humanities.

 

Of course, it’s never too late to right the wrong but then, time is no man’s friend.He missed out at the early stage.

 

At this juncture, I want you to look at yourself deeply,check your life in the mirror of the path you are treading on and ask yourself these questions:

 

Am I fulfilled?

Am I happy with the choices I made?

Can I stand alone without trying to bank on people in this journey where I am towing?

 

I really need you to take a pause and answer these questions wholeheartedly without deceit and with a clear conscience.

 

If your answer is positive, I congratulate you.

 

If your answer is negative, I really also appreciate your sincerity and then I asked that you paused, ponder and have a rethink on the danger of following someone’s else’s dream.

 

There is one thing you should understand,which is,there is only one ‘you’ and you were born,made and wired for a specific purpose.

 

People, friends and familiars might laugh at you while you are moving on your path but you must understand that all jesting and mockery would only be for a season that would end up fizzling out when the result begins to manifest.

 

You were not born to be like everybody or someone else.You are unique and special.

 

Now tell me,what would be unique about you if your life was exactly like someone else or you do exactly what every of your friends do?

 

The specialty and uniqueness in you was set to affect someone’s life or even a large number of people.

 

In my days in high school, there was this notion about those in the arts department which is somehow negative,It was about art students not being intelligent and smart pupils are meant for science and technical departments.

 

There were conflicts within me.I knew I had an inbuilt affinity for arts naturally but then I never wanted to be recokned with anything that has to do with being tagged, counted and called a dull or an unintelligent student.

 

Fortunately for me,I thank goodness for sending my then English Language teacher who came at the right time and whispered a seemingly light but then strong word to me.He said,’it is better to be where you can be at your best than to be where you might end up being confused’.

 

And today,with a glad heart,I can proudly say that Art is life.I would have been less relevant if I had gone my way because of what people think or what people would say.

 

SELF DISCOVERY

 

I have mentors–People I looked up or admire their lifestyle but that doesn’t neccessarily mean that I have to be like them.I can only emulate some attributes, values and virtues that sustained them in their journey to be whom I was meant to be.

 

In other words, it is not wrong for you to have mentors, as a matter of fact having a mentor challenges you to greater and lofty heights but you must put on that mentality of wanting to be better than your mentor by reaching for more higher grounds.

 

This does not come easily by mere wishes or wishful-thinking, it comes by extra responsibilities, sacrifices,selflessness,commitment,dedication and responsiveness.

 

Being succesful entails doing more to get more.It comes as an outcome of discipline that is incomparable in terms of dedication, diligence and commitment.

 

When you find yourself on the right path, there is a kind of easiness, candour, calmness and self-fulfilment that accompany such.

 

It is when your purpose is discovered and when it is followed strictly that the essence of your existence becomes achievable.

 

To make personal discovery demands personal investment in terms of personal development that entails soul searching  fashioned towards understanding your area of strength and your area of weakness which is one of the focal points of what SWOT ANALYSIS entails.

 

SWOT ANALYSIS simply entails identification of internal strength and weaknesses as well as external opportunities and threat.

 

The benefit of SWOT ANALYSIS is to make you to understand the essence of taking personal responsibilities that will birth self discovery fashioned towards self development wrapped with continous and periodic self appraisal that will aid the total development of the entirety of any human life.

 

The best you can do for yourself in the course of your existence is for you to stop running after another person’s dream and make sure you run after your own dreams until it becomes handy and a subject of practical reality that will be dynamic and flexible enough to entertain and accommodate others who are yet to understand what it takes to run after personal dreams in the course of earthly existence.

 

As it is, we are all created, designed and wired to deliver a message to the world in the course of our exitence on earth but it is pitiful that it is only few people that are prepared and have what it takes to deliver the message before the curtain of their existence on earth is drawn.

 

In conclusion, your best is reserved for that moment you are able to define your path and you are able to walk on it without being distracted with what people might end up saying about the path you decided to take.

 

 

**Special thanks to Onyekwere Joy Ify— for sending part of this article to me for editing and also allowing me to publish it .

 

 

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WHAT IS THE NEXT STEP?—(5 MINUTES READ).

Without any doubt,this is one of the questions that always accompany the achievement of a particular feat and task or series of accomplishment.

 

While some of us get clarity of what the next step ought to be or should be,others are always in quandary and utmost confusion of where to start from or what is the next step.

 

This phase of human existence is not strange and peculiar to a perticular tribe, sex,race,ethnicity,social group,peer group,political and religious affliation.The peculiarity of this phase of human existence is all encompassing and overwhelming to the point that everyone  found existing on earthly pedestal will pass through this phase asking and pondering about ‘what could be next step”.

 

It is a phase of life that can never be denied, dodged and overlooked.

 

It is a moment whereby decisions that will make or mar the destiny of anyone who is presently in existence.

 

It is a fact and a statement of assurance that over 7 billion population of human being is being accommodated on the surface of earth and they are all going to be a product of this phase or they are all going to get to get to a point in the course of their existence whereby such question will demand an answer from them.

 

After all have been done,

After all sacrifices and selfless inputs,

After given all the resources at your disposal,

After contributing immensely,

After giving a hand of help and hope to others,

After being the light amidst gross darkness,

After being lifting others from miry clay,

After crossing the rubicon,

After!After!!After!!!

What next!!!

 

No doubt about it,at a particular point in life, we are all going to encounter an experience that has to do with a feeling of satisfaction or a feeling of disappointment and discouragement.

 

We are all going to believe that we have done what we can do within our capacity to salvage and restore situations around us.We are all going to feel resentful and discouraged after all we have done in sacrificing selflessly for others but societal system deliberately or indeliberately failed to recognize,recommend and renumerate our efforts.

 

why 2
WHAT IS THE NEXT?

 

In the midst of this experience,it is never abnormal,strange and abysmal for anyone to feel cheated or discouraged but one thing that sure is that at this point that the latent strength in us ought to push us forward to forge ahead continuing doing what is necessary,good and right for the elevation and emancipation of the entire world.

 

Every human being on the surface of the earth can be likened to a farmer.While some of will sow a good seed on a good soil,some will sow a bad seed on a good soil but it is only few people that would sow a good seed on a good soil.

 

Then, while the seed sown by you is strangled and prevented to germinate due to poor societal systematic decadence,it is pertinent for you to encourage yourself ,dust yourself and keep moving until you get a good seed in your hand and a good soil whereby it will be sown,germinate and end up becoming an evergreen tree that will turn into a forest in the nearest future.

 

No matter how inconsequential an effort geared towards alleviating the plight of the next person around you might be,it is reasonable and rationale that it should be appreciated but it is appalling and disheartning that the system being operated in our world today has no value and appreciation for truthful human endeavour chanelled towards making the world a better place,hence many people that have good intention to make things better ends up being frustrated and they keep on asking questions about “what is the next step”.

 

No matter how disappointed and discouraged you are, the best way to handle this kind of experience is for you to become relentless and unrepentant in your desire to make things right in the course of your existence on earth.

 

Though,many of your efforts will end up being unappreciated with some of it ending up putting you in problem and also making you to be at a logger-head with some people,cabals and authorities.

 

The best solution is for you to define your goals,targets and fashion out series of strategies that will allow your efforts to be appreciated.

 

Always remember that there are over 7 billion people that needs the littleness of your efforts to trigger and birth the latent greatness inherent in them.

 

In conclusion, whenever your effort in alleviating the plight of one person is not appreciated, do not give up,always remember that the world you live in has a population of over 7 billion people.Always remember and consider the remaining sea of heads that are waiting for the unappreciated effort wasted on that one person.That effort expended on one person that is not appreciated and valued is enough, powerful and potent to raise million of people out of the miry clay.

 

Once your effort is not appreciated, change the scope and make sure you find other people that are in dire need of what you can offer as a form of effort and resources needed for their dream to come to reality.

 

In essence, the next step is for you to look for other people that will appreciate what you can offer.

 

You have wasted precious time being pensive and ruminating about what the next step.

 

Maximize your precious time to look for people that need what you can offer.

 

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WHY ARE YOU KNOCKING THE WRONG DOOR?—(6 Minutes Read).

In the course of the weekend, I fixed an appointment with someone on Monday,27th of November 2017 during lunch break in an Office that is a stone throw away from my place of work.

 

When I got to the front of the office complex, I tried calling him again ti inform him of my presence at his office as earlier planned and purposed by the two of us but his number was switched off.So, I have to copy the next phone number printed on the banner that was outside signifying his business office but I observed that another person picked the call and directed me to meet the reception or the security at the gate asking for a lady called christianah.

 

Immediately,after the instruction, I cut the call and proceeded to the receptionist downstair by the gate.

“Good afternoon Sir”!….I greeted.

“Afternoon sir”…..he responded.

 

“I was asked to ask of a lady called Christianah”….I continued speaking with the receptionist.

 

“Ok”!

“You will have to follow this path by your right and go upstairs to the third floor and ask of her”…..he replied.

 

“But before you proceed, kindly fill this form”…he continued talking.

 

I picked up a pen placed on the table and fill the form that was designed to document some information about me and the person I want to see.

 

Immediately, I finished filling the form, I proceeded and follow the instruction given to me stricrly and after climbing the stair case till I got to the third floor, I was standing infront of a door knocking but there was no response.After some trial knocking and it seems nobody is ready to respond, I placed my hand on the door Knob and I press it down and it was at this moment I realized that the door was not locked at all.

 

When I opened and enter, my sight was filled with the presence of a beautiful lady which I think might be a secretary or a receptionist having a scarf on her head which I think she might be a muslim.

 

dOOR KNOB

 While she gave out a smiling gesture,she was like:

 

“You shouldn’t have waited knocking”

 

And I was like:

 

“Courtesy demand that I knock your door, I can’t just barge into your office like that”.

 

While I was downstairs before I met the security guards, I made a call and I have been asked to ask of Christianah.So after, answering the beautiful receptionist upstairs,I asked her of a lady called Christianah.Immediately, I mentioned Christianah, a lady with a sonorous voice just answered from another office that is not too far from that of the receptionist attending to me.

 

Christianah was like:

 

“You can come inside”.

 

While I attempted taking some step forward, I realised that there were many office doors around.

I answered Christianah like this:

“Where is the inside o”

She later directed me into her office.

 

The purpose of the short meeting was fulfilled with a particular form given to me which I quickly filled within a twinkling of an eye because I didnt want to spend all the sixty minutes given to me by company for rest and lunch break outside.

 

As I finished and bade goodbye to Christianah,less I forget,Christianah is also a beautiful ebony too but the receptionist  was a lttle bit light in complexion.

 

So as I turned my back at Christianah,I wanted to open a particular door and I later she corrected me as I was approaching the door.

 

She was like:

“No!Thats not the right door”.

 

It was at this point that the door I approached initially would have led me to another office entirely.

 

She later showed me the right door that led to the receptionist office and later I bade the receptionist goodbye as I approached the entry door that exited me out of the company’s premises.

 

It was while I was appraising my activities for the day later at the end of yesterday that I was inspired to write about this piece tagged:

(Page 1)

 

“WHY OPENING THE WRONG DOOR”

 

No doubt about it, our existence on earth will always present unto us many doors that are always irrestitible in every sense.They are beautiful doors that portrays great opportunities and some presents promises of a better and a brighter future to us at one point in time.

 

 

Since the doors life present to us are always many with the promises of many life changing opportunities, this always put a pressure and the responsibility on us in choosing the right one at the right time.

oPEN DOOR

 

 

Though, there are many potential doors openned wide to us but ironically, it bis not every openned door that leads to a point whereby we can obtain what we are purposed for.

 

Some doors are opened intentionally to bring us back to square one and all round slavery while others are opened to entrap us and choke the plan and purpose of God for us.

 

 

“It is not every door that can take you to your destination.Some doors are openned to take us into destitution and servitude that is designed and tailored pin us down on a spot without any reason”

 

Many people have been a victim of opening the wrong door and they had used their hands to open a door that will keep them in boundage till eternity.

 

 

“In life,it is not the access to a door that matters but the access to the right door that will attract the right opportunities is what that matters because life is designed to present unto us many doors that are wide opened”.

 

 

This places an arduous task on us in knowing the right door to be opened at the right time by the right key for the right purpose.

 

 

It is unti when all these are known and put in place that your desired plan and purpose can be established in the course of your existence on earth.

 

 

Doors are opened to mould us while doors are also opened to mar us.It depends on which door is opened by us.

 

 

 

Opening a wrong door simply conotes and trigger regrets, setback and all round servitude but the right door is the door that is potent enough to trigger the launch of the potentials in us and it is fervent enough to birth the fulfilment of our God given destiny and potentials.

 

 

“Those who are classified among the successful and the greatest are those who have been opportuned in the course of their existence on earth to open the right door with the right key at the right time for the right purpose which end up launching them into the realm of making the right decision that birthed the right success”.

 

 

The struggle and stress of any man terminates at the point whereby the right door is located, opened with the right key for the right purpose.

 

It is at this point the right success can be obtained at the right time.

 

 

Doors are keys to the destiny of every man and woman.No destiny will be fulfilled without the location of the right door at the right time in the course of human existence on earth.

 

 

In conclusion,it is important for everyone to discover the right door and the right key designed for the right purpose at the right time for the purpopse of fulfilling destiny at the right time.

 

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Tag:#Doors#Inspiration#Motivation#Destiny

 

 

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WHY ARE YOU KNOCKING THE WRONG DOOR?—(6 Minutes Read).

In the course of the weekend, I fixed an appointment with someone on Monday,27th of November 2017 during lunch break in an Office that is a stone throw away from my place of work.

 

When I got to the front of the office complex, I tried calling him again ti inform him of my presence at his office as earlier planned and purposed by the two of us but his number was switched off.So, I have to copy the next phone number printed on the banner that was outside signifying his business office but I observed that another person picked the call and directed me to meet the reception or the security at the gate asking for a lady called christianah.

 

Immediately,after the instruction, I cut the call and proceeded to the receptionist downstair by the gate.

“Good afternoon Sir”!….I greeted.

“Afternoon sir”…..he responded.

 

“I was asked to ask of a lady called Christianah”….I continued speaking with the receptionist.

 

“Ok”!

“You will have to follow this path by your right and go upstairs to the third floor and ask of her”…..he replied.

 

“But before you proceed, kindly fill this form”…he continued talking.

 

I picked up a pen placed on the table and fill the form that was designed to document some information about me and the person I want to see.

 

Immediately, I finished filling the form, I proceeded and follow the instruction given to me stricrly and after climbing the stair case till I got to the third floor, I was standing infront of a door knocking but there was no response.After some trial knocking and it seems nobody is ready to respond, I placed my hand on the door Knob and I press it down and it was at this moment I realized that the door was not locked at all.

 

When I opened and enter, my sight was filled with the presence of a beautiful lady which I think might be a secretary or a receptionist having a scarf on her head which I think she might be a muslim.

 

dOOR KNOB

 While she gave out a smiling gesture,she was like:

 

“You shouldn’t have waited knocking”

 

And I was like:

 

“Courtesy demand that I knock your door, I can’t just barge into your office like that”.

 

While I was downstairs before I met the security guards, I made a call and I have been asked to ask of Christianah.So after, answering the beautiful receptionist upstairs,I asked her of a lady called Christianah.Immediately, I mentioned Christianah, a lady with a sonorous voice just answered from another office that is not too far from that of the receptionist attending to me.

 

Christianah was like:

 

“You can come inside”.

 

While I attempted taking some step forward, I realised that there were many office doors around.

I answered Christianah like this:

“Where is the inside o”

She later directed me into her office.

 

The purpose of the short meeting was fulfilled with a particular form given to me which I quickly filled within a twinkling of an eye because I didnt want to spend all the sixty minutes given to me by company for rest and lunch break outside.

 

As I finished and bade goodbye to Christianah,less I forget,Christianah is also a beautiful ebony too but the receptionist  was a lttle bit light in complexion.

 

So as I turned my back at Christianah,I wanted to open a particular door and I later she corrected me as I was approaching the door.

 

She was like:

“No!Thats not the right door”.

 

It was at this point that the door I approached initially would have led me to another office entirely.

 

She later showed me the right door that led to the receptionist office and later I bade the receptionist goodbye as I approached the entry door that exited me out of the company’s premises.

 

It was while I was appraising my activities for the day later at the end of yesterday that I was inspired to write about this piece tagged:

(Page 1)

 

“WHY OPENING THE WRONG DOOR”

 

No doubt about it, our existence on earth will always present unto us many doors that are always irrestitible in every sense.They are beautiful doors that portrays great opportunities and some presents promises of a better and a brighter future to us at one point in time.

 

 

Since the doors life present to us are always many with the promises of many life changing opportunities, this always put a pressure and the responsibility on us in choosing the right one at the right time.

oPEN DOOR

 

 

Though, there are many potential doors openned wide to us but ironically, it bis not every openned door that leads to a point whereby we can obtain what we are purposed for.

 

Some doors are opened intentionally to bring us back to square one and all round slavery while others are opened to entrap us and choke the plan and purpose of God for us.

 

 

“It is not every door that can take you to your destination.Some doors are openned to take us into destitution and servitude that is designed and tailored pin us down on a spot without any reason”

 

Many people have been a victim of opening the wrong door and they had used their hands to open a door that will keep them in boundage till eternity.

 

 

“In life,it is not the access to a door that matters but the access to the right door that will attract the right opportunities is what that matters because life is designed to present unto us many doors that are wide opened”.

 

 

This places an arduous task on us in knowing the right door to be opened at the right time by the right key for the right purpose.

 

 

It is unti when all these are known and put in place that your desired plan and purpose can be established in the course of your existence on earth.

 

 

Doors are opened to mould us while doors are also opened to mar us.It depends on which door is opened by us.

 

 

 

Opening a wrong door simply conotes and trigger regrets, setback and all round servitude but the right door is the door that is potent enough to trigger the launch of the potentials in us and it is fervent enough to birth the fulfilment of our God given destiny and potentials.

 

 

“Those who are classified among the successful and the greatest are those who have been opportuned in the course of their existence on earth to open the right door with the right key at the right time for the right purpose which end up launching them into the realm of making the right decision that birthed the right success”.

 

 

The struggle and stress of any man terminates at the point whereby the right door is located, opened with the right key for the right purpose.

 

It is at this point the right success can be obtained at the right time.

 

 

Doors are keys to the destiny of every man and woman.No destiny will be fulfilled without the location of the right door at the right time in the course of human existence on earth.

 

 

In conclusion,it is important for everyone to discover the right door and the right key designed for the right purpose at the right time for the purpopse of fulfilling destiny at the right time.

 

(Page 2)

 

 

 

Tag:#Doors#Inspiration#Motivation#Destiny

 

 

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THE WRONG MOTIVE—-EPISODE 5.—-(12 MINUTES READ).

CHAPTER ONE.

Tiffany!!!

 

My daughter…..

 

How are you?

 

We have not talk since you came back from school….Tiffany’s mum kept speaking.

 

You have not tell me anything about school life since you came back.

 

Why?

 

Hope nothing is wrong?…Tiffany’s mum continued.

 

Tiffany’s mum engaged her in a chat while in the kitchen after they got home from church service and they were both in the kitchen preparing lunch for the whole family.Tiffany’s is the only daughter and the only child that was available to spend her holiday with her dad and mum, others are guys and they are presently in higher institutions studying one course of discipline or the other.

 

Mummy!

 

Mummy!!

 

Mummy!!!.

 

We have been talking about one thing or the other since I came back now…Tiffany responded.

 

Is there anything I forgot to tell you or add to the discussion we have been having since I came back Mum?…Tifffany continued.

 

I guess something is fishy.

 

Mum!!!

 

I guess you are insinuating something, but it is a pity I cannot figure it out presently.

 

Can you please help me out Mum?….Tiffany asked.

 

Do you mean you cannot decipher my codes and parable….Tiffany’s  mum reponded.

 

Ok!

 

If you cannot,kindly tell me about happennings while you are in the school from academics to social to spiritual and every other things that happenned while you were in school….Tiffany’s mum asked further.

 

Mum!!!

 

Everything is fine in school….Tiffany responded.

 

I really enjoyed my last semester.It was a little bit less stressful and since I am about rounding up,academics seems to be light, it just my final year thesis that I am suspecting might be energy sapping and time-consuming now but since I am winding up now, I will not be moved and bothered about it.i will just handle it the way it is.

 

Also, the school environment has been peaceful, serene and calm. The trend of social life has been a little bit upped courtesy the freshers and sophomores due to the fact that time is still on their side to flex and enjoy school environment but on my side, I am tired and eager to write my final exams and leave the school environment.So, social life has not been somehow irrelevant to me now.

 

Hmmmm….Tiffany’s mum sighed.

 

My daughter…

 

You have not tell me what I want to hear now….

 

Mum!!!…Tiffany called.

 

Whatelse do you want to hear again….Tiffany asked her mum.

 

 

I am beginning to suspect that what you are asking me is more than what I have given you…Tiffany responded…

 

Yes!!!!

 

It is more than what you are giving me.I am oliver twist.I need more gist from my only daughter…Tiffany’s mum voice went up.

 

What is going on there in the kitchen…Tiffany’s dad interrupted from his sitting position in the living room where he was busy reading daily tabloid and watching an afternoon lifestyle program on one of the cable network on the Television.

 

Nothing much sir…Tiffany answered.

 

We were just in the middle of an interesting discussion with your darling wife.Sir, please,kindly come and pick your wife in the kitchen.She is putting hand in my mouth too much to extract information I didn’t have any access to and I am yet to figure out what exactly is your wife stand about all the questions he keeps asking me.Though, I have answered her but she seems not satisfied with my answer and I am getting fed up of her.Please, come and take her away so that I can finish cooking for both of you on time.

 

Ok!!!

 

Tiffany’s dad burst into sporadic laughter but later answered Tiffany that she should give all the necessary answers to her mum’s questions because I will not want her to disturb me while you are back to school.Please, help me out and give her all the necessary answers….Tiffany’s dad paused  but kept laughing with the funny discussion that has engulfed the whole house on a sunny sunday afternoon.

 

Ok!!!

 

Sir…

 

I will answer all her questions before I go back to school but not now.Kindly, help me to tell her to come out straight so that we will not be beating about the bush using questions to answer questions but I am still suspicious of what your wife is up to.

 

No Problem!!!

 

My dear daughter…Tiffany’s dad responded.

 

I will ask her to go straight to the point.

 

Better!!!…Tiffany continued with his dad.

 

It can’t be now.Let’s finish cooking lunch and rest.It might be later in the day when we are all calm and relaxed that we will dedicate time to give answers to all her questions.

 

Ok!!!

 

No problem…Tiffany’s dad and mum chorused in unison.

 

We are eager to listen to our dear daughter answering our questions one after the other.

 

THE WRONG MOTIVE—EPISODE FIVE—-CHAPTER ONE.

 

As it was gradually getting to break-time, Tony was so much eager to unbottled himself.He managed to concerntrate with his work because his mind was on the planned and proposed discussion he will be having with his close pal and also he is still bothered and anxious about meeting the figure he saw on sunday soon.

 

As he saw Titus walking from his office door gradually nearing his office, Tony’s heart leapt for joy and he speedily round up whatever he is doing in order to ctach up with Titus before he get to his door so that they can both proceed to have lunch and have a deep discussion as promised in the morning.

 

Good Afternoon Sirs….Madam the spoon greeted the duo of Tony and Titus together.

 

Afternoon Ma….Tony and Titus replied.

 

What do you want sirs….Madam The Spoon asked further.

 

Do you have Fried Rice and Chicken….Tony and Titus asked.

 

Yes!!! I have Fried Rice.

 

While Madam The Spoon was preparing for them, the discussion started.

 

Tony!!!

 

How far now….Titus asked.

 

What really happened in the course of the weekend….Titus probed further.

 

Hmmm…..Tony started.

 

I started my sunday morning being late to the church because I woke up late.So, I got to late to church and I wasn’t able to officiate and on getting to church hurriedly, though I managed to calm down and accept my fate by listening attentively to the sunday sermon.

 

As I was settling down,while looking around in the course of the service, my eyes sighted somebody that caught my fancy on the spot.Though, I made up my mind to see her at the end of the service.

 

At the end of the service,I tried to catch up with her but someone delayed me with a useless chat and on getteing to where she stayed which is the choir stand, I met her absence.Though, I was fortunate to ask of her from the choir master to the extent that we both glanced through the officiating attendance for the day, the choir master didn’t allow me to go with her biodata but promised to help me by asking me to come over next sunday.

 

I have no choice but to consent with the choir master’s proposal.

 

Was that why you are bothered and pensive…Titus asked.

 

Yes!!!

 

Why could I have missed opportunity with God and man by being late throughout yesterday….Tony responded.

 

And now, I am so much eager and anxious of what might happen next sunday.

 

At this point, Titus burst into laughter and it attracted other eyes that were present in the canteen.

 

Tony was a little bit shy and embarrassed with the number of people that turned their faces towards their sitting stand in the canteen.

 

It seems you are gradually falling in love….Titus pointed it out to Tony.

 

You need to calm down and be patient with yourself.

 

If you are destined to have her, no problem.If you are not, life goes on.You will surely meet another person in due time.Stop killing yourself gradually by being moody.

 

Is that all?….Tony asked.

 

 

Let’s eat our food.

 

At this point, one of Madam “The Spoon” waiteress has already laid down the food the requested for on the table where they are sitting with bottled Table water.

 

They both enjoyed the delicacies till the break-time was over.

 

They both engaged themselves with other frivolities till they got back to their respective offices.

 

THE WRONG MOTIVE—EPISODE FIVE—CHAPTER TWO.

 

Is Tony’s motive right or wrong?

 

Let’s keep our fingers crossed for the next episode.

 

It promised to make you ask for more.

 

Any comment, suggestions and observation is welcomed.

 

Thanks.

 

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WHY ARE YOU KNOCKING THE WRONG DOOR?—(6 Minutes Read).

In the course of the weekend, I fixed an appointment with someone on Monday,27th of November 2017 during lunch break in an Office that is a stone throw away from my place of work.

 

When I got to the front of the office complex, I tried calling him again ti inform him of my presence at his office as earlier planned and purposed by the two of us but his number was switched off.So, I have to copy the next phone number printed on the banner that was outside signifying his business office but I observed that another person picked the call and directed me to meet the reception or the security at the gate asking for a lady called christianah.

 

Immediately,after the instruction, I cut the call and proceeded to the receptionist downstair by the gate.

“Good afternoon Sir”!….I greeted.

“Afternoon sir”…..he responded.

 

“I was asked to ask of a lady called Christianah”….I continued speaking with the receptionist.

 

“Ok”!

“You will have to follow this path by your right and go upstairs to the third floor and ask of her”…..he replied.

 

“But before you proceed, kindly fill this form”…he continued talking.

 

I picked up a pen placed on the table and fill the form that was designed to document some information about me and the person I want to see.

 

Immediately, I finished filling the form, I proceeded and follow the instruction given to me stricrly and after climbing the stair case till I got to the third floor, I was standing infront of a door knocking but there was no response.After some trial knocking and it seems nobody is ready to respond, I placed my hand on the door Knob and I press it down and it was at this moment I realized that the door was not locked at all.

 

When I opened and enter, my sight was filled with the presence of a beautiful lady which I think might be a secretary or a receptionist having a scarf on her head which I think she might be a muslim.

 

dOOR KNOB

 While she gave out a smiling gesture,she was like:

 

“You shouldn’t have waited knocking”

 

And I was like:

 

“Courtesy demand that I knock your door, I can’t just barge into your office like that”.

 

While I was downstairs before I met the security guards, I made a call and I have been asked to ask of Christianah.So after, answering the beautiful receptionist upstairs,I asked her of a lady called Christianah.Immediately, I mentioned Christianah, a lady with a sonorous voice just answered from another office that is not too far from that of the receptionist attending to me.

 

Christianah was like:

 

“You can come inside”.

 

While I attempted taking some step forward, I realised that there were many office doors around.

I answered Christianah like this:

“Where is the inside o”

She later directed me into her office.

 

The purpose of the short meeting was fulfilled with a particular form given to me which I quickly filled within a twinkling of an eye because I didnt want to spend all the sixty minutes given to me by company for rest and lunch break outside.

 

As I finished and bade goodbye to Christianah,less I forget,Christianah is also a beautiful ebony too but the receptionist  was a lttle bit light in complexion.

 

So as I turned my back at Christianah,I wanted to open a particular door and I later she corrected me as I was approaching the door.

 

She was like:

“No!Thats not the right door”.

 

It was at this point that the door I approached initially would have led me to another office entirely.

 

She later showed me the right door that led to the receptionist office and later I bade the receptionist goodbye as I approached the entry door that exited me out of the company’s premises.

 

It was while I was appraising my activities for the day later at the end of yesterday that I was inspired to write about this piece tagged:

(Page 1)

 

“WHY OPENING THE WRONG DOOR”

 

No doubt about it, our existence on earth will always present unto us many doors that are always irrestitible in every sense.They are beautiful doors that portrays great opportunities and some presents promises of a better and a brighter future to us at one point in time.

 

 

Since the doors life present to us are always many with the promises of many life changing opportunities, this always put a pressure and the responsibility on us in choosing the right one at the right time.

oPEN DOOR

 

 

Though, there are many potential doors openned wide to us but ironically, it bis not every openned door that leads to a point whereby we can obtain what we are purposed for.

 

Some doors are opened intentionally to bring us back to square one and all round slavery while others are opened to entrap us and choke the plan and purpose of God for us.

 

 

“It is not every door that can take you to your destination.Some doors are openned to take us into destitution and servitude that is designed and tailored pin us down on a spot without any reason”

 

Many people have been a victim of opening the wrong door and they had used their hands to open a door that will keep them in boundage till eternity.

 

 

“In life,it is not the access to a door that matters but the access to the right door that will attract the right opportunities is what that matters because life is designed to present unto us many doors that are wide opened”.

 

 

This places an arduous task on us in knowing the right door to be opened at the right time by the right key for the right purpose.

 

 

It is unti when all these are known and put in place that your desired plan and purpose can be established in the course of your existence on earth.

 

 

Doors are opened to mould us while doors are also opened to mar us.It depends on which door is opened by us.

 

 

 

Opening a wrong door simply conotes and trigger regrets, setback and all round servitude but the right door is the door that is potent enough to trigger the launch of the potentials in us and it is fervent enough to birth the fulfilment of our God given destiny and potentials.

 

 

“Those who are classified among the successful and the greatest are those who have been opportuned in the course of their existence on earth to open the right door with the right key at the right time for the right purpose which end up launching them into the realm of making the right decision that birthed the right success”.

 

 

The struggle and stress of any man terminates at the point whereby the right door is located, opened with the right key for the right purpose.

 

It is at this point the right success can be obtained at the right time.

 

 

Doors are keys to the destiny of every man and woman.No destiny will be fulfilled without the location of the right door at the right time in the course of human existence on earth.

 

 

In conclusion,it is important for everyone to discover the right door and the right key designed for the right purpose at the right time for the purpopse of fulfilling destiny at the right time.

 

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WHY CAN’T YOU RUN AFTER YOUR DREAM?—(10 MINUTES READ).

I was on transit recently in a bus one beautiful morning and there was this young man who sat just close to me.He started a converstaion and we got talking in the course of the long journey.He obviously was an extrovert, so it wasn’t difficult for him to pick up a chat.

 

Somehow I got to know he was thirty-three years old sometimes after that day.He was keeping my company with all his gists.

 

And then, he asked me about what I am doing for a living.Gladly,I told him what I was into at first and then smiled with greater hope for years to come.

 

Suddenly,he kept mute and his countenance changed and went down.

 

Hi!

 

You aren’t saying anything….I said.

 

He took a deep breath and sighed…

 

Hmmm….could this be what people refer to as “enemy of progress”.I thought.

 

But he doesn’t know me,I pondered.

 

It was glaring that something was wrong at that point.I needed not a soothsayers to tell me.

 

But I chose to keep quiet.Then I turned to the window side and avoided anymore talk.

 

Few minutes after I turned, he called for my attention, and then he later opened up to me that he was frustrated with his career choice.He made it clear that where he was at that point was as a wrong decision made back in high school by trying to be where his friends and colleagues were or doing what they wanted.

 

According to him,he wasn’t satisfied, he was struggling with such inner pain and the height of it all was that he had just made a decision to start all over again from sciences to arts and humanities.

 

Of course, it’s never too late to right the wrong but then, time is no man’s friend.He missed out at the early stage.

 

At this juncture, I want you to look at yourself deeply,check your life in the mirror of the path you are treading on and ask yourself these questions:

 

Am I fulfilled?

Am I happy with the choices I made?

Can I stand alone without trying to bank on people in this journey where I am towing?

 

I really need you to take a pause and answer these questions wholeheartedly without deceit and with a clear conscience.

 

If your answer is positive, I congratulate you.

 

If your answer is negative, I really also appreciate your sincerity and then I asked that you paused, ponder and have a rethink on the danger of following someone’s else’s dream.

 

There is one thing you should understand,which is,there is only one ‘you’ and you were born,made and wired for a specific purpose.

 

People, friends and familiars might laugh at you while you are moving on your path but you must understand that all jesting and mockery would only be for a season that would end up fizzling out when the result begins to manifest.

 

You were not born to be like everybody or someone else.You are unique and special.

 

Now tell me,what would be unique about you if your life was exactly like someone else or you do exactly what every of your friends do?

 

The specialty and uniqueness in you was set to affect someone’s life or even a large number of people.

 

In my days in high school, there was this notion about those in the arts department which is somehow negative,It was about art students not being intelligent and smart pupils are meant for science and technical departments.

 

There were conflicts within me.I knew I had an inbuilt affinity for arts naturally but then I never wanted to be recokned with anything that has to do with being tagged, counted and called a dull or an unintelligent student.

 

Fortunately for me,I thank goodness for sending my then English Language teacher who came at the right time and whispered a seemingly light but then strong word to me.He said,’it is better to be where you can be at your best than to be where you might end up being confused’.

 

And today,with a glad heart,I can proudly say that Art is life.I would have been less relevant if I had gone my way because of what people think or what people would say.

 

SELF DISCOVERY

 

I have mentors–People I looked up or admire their lifestyle but that doesn’t neccessarily mean that I have to be like them.I can only emulate some attributes, values and virtues that sustained them in their journey to be whom I was meant to be.

 

In other words, it is not wrong for you to have mentors, as a matter of fact having a mentor challenges you to greater and lofty heights but you must put on that mentality of wanting to be better than your mentor by reaching for more higher grounds.

 

This does not come easily by mere wishes or wishful-thinking, it comes by extra responsibilities, sacrifices,selflessness,commitment,dedication and responsiveness.

 

Being succesful entails doing more to get more.It comes as an outcome of discipline that is incomparable in terms of dedication, diligence and commitment.

 

When you find yourself on the right path, there is a kind of easiness, candour, calmness and self-fulfilment that accompany such.

 

It is when your purpose is discovered and when it is followed strictly that the essence of your existence becomes achievable.

 

To make personal discovery demands personal investment in terms of personal development that entails soul searching  fashioned towards understanding your area of strength and your area of weakness which is one of the focal points of what SWOT ANALYSIS entails.

 

SWOT ANALYSIS simply entails identification of internal strength and weaknesses as well as external opportunities and threat.

 

The benefit of SWOT ANALYSIS is to make you to understand the essence of taking personal responsibilities that will birth self discovery fashioned towards self development wrapped with continous and periodic self appraisal that will aid the total development of the entirety of any human life.

 

The best you can do for yourself in the course of your existence is for you to stop running after another person’s dream and make sure you run after your own dreams until it becomes handy and a subject of practical reality that will be dynamic and flexible enough to entertain and accommodate others who are yet to understand what it takes to run after personal dreams in the course of earthly existence.

 

As it is, we are all created, designed and wired to deliver a message to the world in the course of our exitence on earth but it is pitiful that it is only few people that are prepared and have what it takes to deliver the message before the curtain of their existence on earth is drawn.

 

In conclusion, your best is reserved for that moment you are able to define your path and you are able to walk on it without being distracted with what people might end up saying about the path you decided to take.

 

 

**Special thanks to Onyekwere Joy Ify— for sending part of this article to me for editing and also allowing me to publish it .

 

 

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#Self-fulfilment#

 

#Self-appraisal#

 

#Self-development#

 

#Inspiration#

 

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WHAT IS THE NEXT STEP?—(5 MINUTES READ).

Without any doubt,this is one of the questions that always accompany the achievement of a particular feat and task or series of accomplishment.

 

While some of us get clarity of what the next step ought to be or should be,others are always in quandary and utmost confusion of where to start from or what is the next step.

 

This phase of human existence is not strange and peculiar to a perticular tribe, sex,race,ethnicity,social group,peer group,political and religious affliation.The peculiarity of this phase of human existence is all encompassing and overwhelming to the point that everyone  found existing on earthly pedestal will pass through this phase asking and pondering about ‘what could be next step”.

 

It is a phase of life that can never be denied, dodged and overlooked.

 

It is a moment whereby decisions that will make or mar the destiny of anyone who is presently in existence.

 

It is a fact and a statement of assurance that over 7 billion population of human being is being accommodated on the surface of earth and they are all going to be a product of this phase or they are all going to get to get to a point in the course of their existence whereby such question will demand an answer from them.

 

After all have been done,

After all sacrifices and selfless inputs,

After given all the resources at your disposal,

After contributing immensely,

After giving a hand of help and hope to others,

After being the light amidst gross darkness,

After being lifting others from miry clay,

After crossing the rubicon,

After!After!!After!!!

What next!!!

 

No doubt about it,at a particular point in life, we are all going to encounter an experience that has to do with a feeling of satisfaction or a feeling of disappointment and discouragement.

 

We are all going to believe that we have done what we can do within our capacity to salvage and restore situations around us.We are all going to feel resentful and discouraged after all we have done in sacrificing selflessly for others but societal system deliberately or indeliberately failed to recognize,recommend and renumerate our efforts.

 

why 2
WHAT IS THE NEXT?

 

In the midst of this experience,it is never abnormal,strange and abysmal for anyone to feel cheated or discouraged but one thing that sure is that at this point that the latent strength in us ought to push us forward to forge ahead continuing doing what is necessary,good and right for the elevation and emancipation of the entire world.

 

Every human being on the surface of the earth can be likened to a farmer.While some of will sow a good seed on a good soil,some will sow a bad seed on a good soil but it is only few people that would sow a good seed on a good soil.

 

Then, while the seed sown by you is strangled and prevented to germinate due to poor societal systematic decadence,it is pertinent for you to encourage yourself ,dust yourself and keep moving until you get a good seed in your hand and a good soil whereby it will be sown,germinate and end up becoming an evergreen tree that will turn into a forest in the nearest future.

 

No matter how inconsequential an effort geared towards alleviating the plight of the next person around you might be,it is reasonable and rationale that it should be appreciated but it is appalling and disheartning that the system being operated in our world today has no value and appreciation for truthful human endeavour chanelled towards making the world a better place,hence many people that have good intention to make things better ends up being frustrated and they keep on asking questions about “what is the next step”.

 

No matter how disappointed and discouraged you are, the best way to handle this kind of experience is for you to become relentless and unrepentant in your desire to make things right in the course of your existence on earth.

 

Though,many of your efforts will end up being unappreciated with some of it ending up putting you in problem and also making you to be at a logger-head with some people,cabals and authorities.

 

The best solution is for you to define your goals,targets and fashion out series of strategies that will allow your efforts to be appreciated.

 

Always remember that there are over 7 billion people that needs the littleness of your efforts to trigger and birth the latent greatness inherent in them.

 

In conclusion, whenever your effort in alleviating the plight of one person is not appreciated, do not give up,always remember that the world you live in has a population of over 7 billion people.Always remember and consider the remaining sea of heads that are waiting for the unappreciated effort wasted on that one person.That effort expended on one person that is not appreciated and valued is enough, powerful and potent to raise million of people out of the miry clay.

 

Once your effort is not appreciated, change the scope and make sure you find other people that are in dire need of what you can offer as a form of effort and resources needed for their dream to come to reality.

 

In essence, the next step is for you to look for other people that will appreciate what you can offer.

 

You have wasted precious time being pensive and ruminating about what the next step.

 

Maximize your precious time to look for people that need what you can offer.

 

Tag:

 

#next step#

 

#sex#

 

#ethnicity#

 

#race#

 

#population#

 

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WHAT IS THE NEXT STEP?—(5 MINUTES READ).

Without any doubt,this is one of the questions that always accompany the achievement of a particular feat and task or series of accomplishment.

 

While some of us get clarity of what the next step ought to be or should be,others are always in quandary and utmost confusion of where to start from or what is the next step.

 

This phase of human existence is not strange and peculiar to a perticular tribe, sex,race,ethnicity,social group,peer group,political and religious affliation.The peculiarity of this phase of human existence is all encompassing and overwhelming to the point that everyone  found existing on earthly pedestal will pass through this phase asking and pondering about ‘what could be next step”.

 

It is a phase of life that can never be denied, dodged and overlooked.

 

It is a moment whereby decisions that will make or mar the destiny of anyone who is presently in existence.

 

It is a fact and a statement of assurance that over 7 billion population of human being is being accommodated on the surface of earth and they are all going to be a product of this phase or they are all going to get to get to a point in the course of their existence whereby such question will demand an answer from them.

 

After all have been done,

After all sacrifices and selfless inputs,

After given all the resources at your disposal,

After contributing immensely,

After giving a hand of help and hope to others,

After being the light amidst gross darkness,

After being lifting others from miry clay,

After crossing the rubicon,

After!After!!After!!!

What next!!!

 

No doubt about it,at a particular point in life, we are all going to encounter an experience that has to do with a feeling of satisfaction or a feeling of disappointment and discouragement.

 

We are all going to believe that we have done what we can do within our capacity to salvage and restore situations around us.We are all going to feel resentful and discouraged after all we have done in sacrificing selflessly for others but societal system deliberately or indeliberately failed to recognize,recommend and renumerate our efforts.

 

why 2
WHAT IS THE NEXT?

 

In the midst of this experience,it is never abnormal,strange and abysmal for anyone to feel cheated or discouraged but one thing that sure is that at this point that the latent strength in us ought to push us forward to forge ahead continuing doing what is necessary,good and right for the elevation and emancipation of the entire world.

 

Every human being on the surface of the earth can be likened to a farmer.While some of will sow a good seed on a good soil,some will sow a bad seed on a good soil but it is only few people that would sow a good seed on a good soil.

 

Then, while the seed sown by you is strangled and prevented to germinate due to poor societal systematic decadence,it is pertinent for you to encourage yourself ,dust yourself and keep moving until you get a good seed in your hand and a good soil whereby it will be sown,germinate and end up becoming an evergreen tree that will turn into a forest in the nearest future.

 

No matter how inconsequential an effort geared towards alleviating the plight of the next person around you might be,it is reasonable and rationale that it should be appreciated but it is appalling and disheartning that the system being operated in our world today has no value and appreciation for truthful human endeavour chanelled towards making the world a better place,hence many people that have good intention to make things better ends up being frustrated and they keep on asking questions about “what is the next step”.

 

No matter how disappointed and discouraged you are, the best way to handle this kind of experience is for you to become relentless and unrepentant in your desire to make things right in the course of your existence on earth.

 

Though,many of your efforts will end up being unappreciated with some of it ending up putting you in problem and also making you to be at a logger-head with some people,cabals and authorities.

 

The best solution is for you to define your goals,targets and fashion out series of strategies that will allow your efforts to be appreciated.

 

Always remember that there are over 7 billion people that needs the littleness of your efforts to trigger and birth the latent greatness inherent in them.

 

In conclusion, whenever your effort in alleviating the plight of one person is not appreciated, do not give up,always remember that the world you live in has a population of over 7 billion people.Always remember and consider the remaining sea of heads that are waiting for the unappreciated effort wasted on that one person.That effort expended on one person that is not appreciated and valued is enough, powerful and potent to raise million of people out of the miry clay.

 

Once your effort is not appreciated, change the scope and make sure you find other people that are in dire need of what you can offer as a form of effort and resources needed for their dream to come to reality.

 

In essence, the next step is for you to look for other people that will appreciate what you can offer.

 

You have wasted precious time being pensive and ruminating about what the next step.

 

Maximize your precious time to look for people that need what you can offer.

 

Tag:

 

#next step#

 

#sex#

 

#ethnicity#

 

#race#

 

#population#

 

Ref:

 

http://www.fotor.com

 

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MLST ARTICLES:THE RAIN WILL SOON STOP–(8 minutes read).

Suddenly light disappeared and the atmosphere became cloudy with darkness overwhelming the day  turning the day to night.

 

Without any notice, rainfall gave signal and it became a source of concern to many people around me.They started complaining about the accompany disturbance of the would-be- unabated heavy downpour that will soon make the ground wet and marshy.

 

In the course of this, I decided not to disturb myself believing with all confidence that whether it fall or not, I will manage myself and the thought of rain falling is too cheap and inconsequential for me to start fidgeting.

 

Within few seconds,rain started falling. Considering the  thickness and the depth of darkness of the cloud,it was expected to be heavy and harsh,but to my consternation and amazement,all it could offer is mere drizzling that makes someone to wonder what happened.

 

At the end, it seized and the rain came to a halt without it having much impact on whatever is presently available of which many people have been caught expressing unknown fear and unnecessary anxiety.

 

rain 1
MLST ARTICLE:THE RAIN WILL SOON STOP.

It was at this point I was somehow inspired to the point that I decided to relate what happen to the issues of life that every human pass through at one point in time.

 

Many people loose their calmness and candor when they find themselves being overwhelmed by challenges of life with them being pummeled and tossed around with the impact of such challenges.

 

In the midst of such challenges, we tend to enlarge and expand what is on ground by making a mountain out of a mole hill.Some of us raise the issue on ground to a high pedestal that will make us to transfer all our focus on the challenges but forget the solution to such problem that might fizzle out without any effort needed to solve it.

 

It is noteworthy to understand that while some challenges demands nothing but patience, perseverance and calmness in the midst of such challenges for it to fade out, other will require that will put one form of effort or the other for such challenges to become thing of the past.

 

 

rain 2
MLST ARTICLE:THE RAIN WILL SOON STOP.

 

Having peace of mind and allowing the time to heal your wound simply connotes the display and exhibition of deep maturity that is very scarce as a source of virtue from the millennia.

 

The immature fidgets at the slightest thought of a mere challenge that needs to just be left to the healing power of time but the mature allow the worst challenges to fade out on its own without loosing a single second of sleep.

 

Humans are good in enlarging issues that has no need of been given a second thought.The energy been expended and invested into fears can be maximized positively by having a kind of dangerous faith that can never be comprehended by anyone.

 

It is on the platform of the exhibition of our faith in making the challenges in our lifes looks like nothing that we might end up becoming masters over such challenges.When you become a master over such challenges,it exposes the deep valuable resources that your existence is made up of.

 

Fear does not make the best out of anyone but faith makes the best out of the most fearful human.

 

Fearfulness is for the weak and the immature, while fearlesness is for the strong and for the mature.

 

rain 3
MLST ARTICLE:THE RAIN WILL SOON STOP.

There is a need for every human to understand that the best in them become exposed when they are able to rise up above the impact of the challenges they are passing through by either looking for solutions or by being insensitive to such challenges and allowing the potent force of time to douse the power inherent in such challenge.

 

In conclusion,

 

According to George Sewell:

 

“The coward sneaks to death;the brave lives on”.

 

Before you finish reading, just know and understand that just as the threatening of a cloudy-dark sky that pervades the atmosphere this evening which was expected to turn into unabated heavy downpour but ended up into mere drizzling,if you can calm down and hold your peace with patience and perseverance being your guide, you will end up rising high above any form of challenge that keep staring at you at this present moment.

 

Listen now,

 

THE RAIN WILL SOON BE OVER.

YOU SHALL WALK ON A DRY LAND.

IT IS JUST A MATTER OF TIME.

 

No challenge is designed to last forever, every challenge is bound to expire and fade away but it is only those who understand the mysteries of life that will remain calm and cool in the midst of any form of challenge.

 

There might be lightning,

 

There might be storm,

 

There might be waves.

 

Never mind.

 

You will walk over it.

 

 

Tag:

 

#Mlst articles#

 

#Heavy downpour#

 

#Inspiration#

 

#Motivation#

 

Ref:

https://www.brainyquote.com/topics/coward

 

 

 

 

 

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WHY CAN’T YOU RUN AFTER YOUR DREAM?—(10 MINUTES READ).

I was on transit recently in a bus one beautiful morning and there was this young man who sat just close to me.He started a converstaion and we got talking in the course of the long journey.He obviously was an extrovert, so it wasn’t difficult for him to pick up a chat.

 

Somehow I got to know he was thirty-three years old sometimes after that day.He was keeping my company with all his gists.

 

And then, he asked me about what I am doing for a living.Gladly,I told him what I was into at first and then smiled with greater hope for years to come.

 

Suddenly,he kept mute and his countenance changed and went down.

 

Hi!

 

You aren’t saying anything….I said.

 

He took a deep breath and sighed…

 

Hmmm….could this be what people refer to as “enemy of progress”.I thought.

 

But he doesn’t know me,I pondered.

 

It was glaring that something was wrong at that point.I needed not a soothsayers to tell me.

 

But I chose to keep quiet.Then I turned to the window side and avoided anymore talk.

 

Few minutes after I turned, he called for my attention, and then he later opened up to me that he was frustrated with his career choice.He made it clear that where he was at that point was as a wrong decision made back in high school by trying to be where his friends and colleagues were or doing what they wanted.

 

According to him,he wasn’t satisfied, he was struggling with such inner pain and the height of it all was that he had just made a decision to start all over again from sciences to arts and humanities.

 

Of course, it’s never too late to right the wrong but then, time is no man’s friend.He missed out at the early stage.

 

At this juncture, I want you to look at yourself deeply,check your life in the mirror of the path you are treading on and ask yourself these questions:

 

Am I fulfilled?

Am I happy with the choices I made?

Can I stand alone without trying to bank on people in this journey where I am towing?

 

I really need you to take a pause and answer these questions wholeheartedly without deceit and with a clear conscience.

 

If your answer is positive, I congratulate you.

 

If your answer is negative, I really also appreciate your sincerity and then I asked that you paused, ponder and have a rethink on the danger of following someone’s else’s dream.

 

There is one thing you should understand,which is,there is only one ‘you’ and you were born,made and wired for a specific purpose.

 

People, friends and familiars might laugh at you while you are moving on your path but you must understand that all jesting and mockery would only be for a season that would end up fizzling out when the result begins to manifest.

 

You were not born to be like everybody or someone else.You are unique and special.

 

Now tell me,what would be unique about you if your life was exactly like someone else or you do exactly what every of your friends do?

 

The specialty and uniqueness in you was set to affect someone’s life or even a large number of people.

 

In my days in high school, there was this notion about those in the arts department which is somehow negative,It was about art students not being intelligent and smart pupils are meant for science and technical departments.

 

There were conflicts within me.I knew I had an inbuilt affinity for arts naturally but then I never wanted to be recokned with anything that has to do with being tagged, counted and called a dull or an unintelligent student.

 

Fortunately for me,I thank goodness for sending my then English Language teacher who came at the right time and whispered a seemingly light but then strong word to me.He said,’it is better to be where you can be at your best than to be where you might end up being confused’.

 

And today,with a glad heart,I can proudly say that Art is life.I would have been less relevant if I had gone my way because of what people think or what people would say.

 

SELF DISCOVERY

 

I have mentors–People I looked up or admire their lifestyle but that doesn’t neccessarily mean that I have to be like them.I can only emulate some attributes, values and virtues that sustained them in their journey to be whom I was meant to be.

 

In other words, it is not wrong for you to have mentors, as a matter of fact having a mentor challenges you to greater and lofty heights but you must put on that mentality of wanting to be better than your mentor by reaching for more higher grounds.

 

This does not come easily by mere wishes or wishful-thinking, it comes by extra responsibilities, sacrifices,selflessness,commitment,dedication and responsiveness.

 

Being succesful entails doing more to get more.It comes as an outcome of discipline that is incomparable in terms of dedication, diligence and commitment.

 

When you find yourself on the right path, there is a kind of easiness, candour, calmness and self-fulfilment that accompany such.

 

It is when your purpose is discovered and when it is followed strictly that the essence of your existence becomes achievable.

 

To make personal discovery demands personal investment in terms of personal development that entails soul searching  fashioned towards understanding your area of strength and your area of weakness which is one of the focal points of what SWOT ANALYSIS entails.

 

SWOT ANALYSIS simply entails identification of internal strength and weaknesses as well as external opportunities and threat.

 

The benefit of SWOT ANALYSIS is to make you to understand the essence of taking personal responsibilities that will birth self discovery fashioned towards self development wrapped with continous and periodic self appraisal that will aid the total development of the entirety of any human life.

 

The best you can do for yourself in the course of your existence is for you to stop running after another person’s dream and make sure you run after your own dreams until it becomes handy and a subject of practical reality that will be dynamic and flexible enough to entertain and accommodate others who are yet to understand what it takes to run after personal dreams in the course of earthly existence.

 

As it is, we are all created, designed and wired to deliver a message to the world in the course of our exitence on earth but it is pitiful that it is only few people that are prepared and have what it takes to deliver the message before the curtain of their existence on earth is drawn.

 

In conclusion, your best is reserved for that moment you are able to define your path and you are able to walk on it without being distracted with what people might end up saying about the path you decided to take.

 

 

**Special thanks to Onyekwere Joy Ify— for sending part of this article to me for editing and also allowing me to publish it .

 

 

Tag:

#Dreams#

 

#Self-fulfilment#

 

#Self-appraisal#

 

#Self-development#

 

#Inspiration#

 

#Motivation#

 

 

Ref:

 

http://www.fotor.com

 

http://unsplash.com

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WHAT IS THE NEXT STEP?—(5 MINUTES READ).

Without any doubt,this is one of the questions that always accompany the achievement of a particular feat and task or series of accomplishment.

 

While some of us get clarity of what the next step ought to be or should be,others are always in quandary and utmost confusion of where to start from or what is the next step.

 

This phase of human existence is not strange and peculiar to a perticular tribe, sex,race,ethnicity,social group,peer group,political and religious affliation.The peculiarity of this phase of human existence is all encompassing and overwhelming to the point that everyone  found existing on earthly pedestal will pass through this phase asking and pondering about ‘what could be next step”.

 

It is a phase of life that can never be denied, dodged and overlooked.

 

It is a moment whereby decisions that will make or mar the destiny of anyone who is presently in existence.

 

It is a fact and a statement of assurance that over 7 billion population of human being is being accommodated on the surface of earth and they are all going to be a product of this phase or they are all going to get to get to a point in the course of their existence whereby such question will demand an answer from them.

 

After all have been done,

After all sacrifices and selfless inputs,

After given all the resources at your disposal,

After contributing immensely,

After giving a hand of help and hope to others,

After being the light amidst gross darkness,

After being lifting others from miry clay,

After crossing the rubicon,

After!After!!After!!!

What next!!!

 

No doubt about it,at a particular point in life, we are all going to encounter an experience that has to do with a feeling of satisfaction or a feeling of disappointment and discouragement.

 

We are all going to believe that we have done what we can do within our capacity to salvage and restore situations around us.We are all going to feel resentful and discouraged after all we have done in sacrificing selflessly for others but societal system deliberately or indeliberately failed to recognize,recommend and renumerate our efforts.

 

why 2
WHAT IS THE NEXT?

 

In the midst of this experience,it is never abnormal,strange and abysmal for anyone to feel cheated or discouraged but one thing that sure is that at this point that the latent strength in us ought to push us forward to forge ahead continuing doing what is necessary,good and right for the elevation and emancipation of the entire world.

 

Every human being on the surface of the earth can be likened to a farmer.While some of will sow a good seed on a good soil,some will sow a bad seed on a good soil but it is only few people that would sow a good seed on a good soil.

 

Then, while the seed sown by you is strangled and prevented to germinate due to poor societal systematic decadence,it is pertinent for you to encourage yourself ,dust yourself and keep moving until you get a good seed in your hand and a good soil whereby it will be sown,germinate and end up becoming an evergreen tree that will turn into a forest in the nearest future.

 

No matter how inconsequential an effort geared towards alleviating the plight of the next person around you might be,it is reasonable and rationale that it should be appreciated but it is appalling and disheartning that the system being operated in our world today has no value and appreciation for truthful human endeavour chanelled towards making the world a better place,hence many people that have good intention to make things better ends up being frustrated and they keep on asking questions about “what is the next step”.

 

No matter how disappointed and discouraged you are, the best way to handle this kind of experience is for you to become relentless and unrepentant in your desire to make things right in the course of your existence on earth.

 

Though,many of your efforts will end up being unappreciated with some of it ending up putting you in problem and also making you to be at a logger-head with some people,cabals and authorities.

 

The best solution is for you to define your goals,targets and fashion out series of strategies that will allow your efforts to be appreciated.

 

Always remember that there are over 7 billion people that needs the littleness of your efforts to trigger and birth the latent greatness inherent in them.

 

In conclusion, whenever your effort in alleviating the plight of one person is not appreciated, do not give up,always remember that the world you live in has a population of over 7 billion people.Always remember and consider the remaining sea of heads that are waiting for the unappreciated effort wasted on that one person.That effort expended on one person that is not appreciated and valued is enough, powerful and potent to raise million of people out of the miry clay.

 

Once your effort is not appreciated, change the scope and make sure you find other people that are in dire need of what you can offer as a form of effort and resources needed for their dream to come to reality.

 

In essence, the next step is for you to look for other people that will appreciate what you can offer.

 

You have wasted precious time being pensive and ruminating about what the next step.

 

Maximize your precious time to look for people that need what you can offer.

 

Tag:

 

#next step#

 

#sex#

 

#ethnicity#

 

#race#

 

#population#

 

Ref:

 

http://www.fotor.com

 

http://unsplash.com

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WHAT IS THE NEXT STEP?—(5 MINUTES READ).

Without any doubt,this is one of the questions that always accompany the achievement of a particular feat and task or series of accomplishment.

 

While some of us get clarity of what the next step ought to be or should be,others are always in quandary and utmost confusion of where to start from or what is the next step.

 

This phase of human existence is not strange and peculiar to a perticular tribe, sex,race,ethnicity,social group,peer group,political and religious affliation.The peculiarity of this phase of human existence is all encompassing and overwhelming to the point that everyone  found existing on earthly pedestal will pass through this phase asking and pondering about ‘what could be next step”.

 

It is a phase of life that can never be denied, dodged and overlooked.

 

It is a moment whereby decisions that will make or mar the destiny of anyone who is presently in existence.

 

It is a fact and a statement of assurance that over 7 billion population of human being is being accommodated on the surface of earth and they are all going to be a product of this phase or they are all going to get to get to a point in the course of their existence whereby such question will demand an answer from them.

 

After all have been done,

After all sacrifices and selfless inputs,

After given all the resources at your disposal,

After contributing immensely,

After giving a hand of help and hope to others,

After being the light amidst gross darkness,

After being lifting others from miry clay,

After crossing the rubicon,

After!After!!After!!!

What next!!!

 

No doubt about it,at a particular point in life, we are all going to encounter an experience that has to do with a feeling of satisfaction or a feeling of disappointment and discouragement.

 

We are all going to believe that we have done what we can do within our capacity to salvage and restore situations around us.We are all going to feel resentful and discouraged after all we have done in sacrificing selflessly for others but societal system deliberately or indeliberately failed to recognize,recommend and renumerate our efforts.

 

why 2
WHAT IS THE NEXT?

 

In the midst of this experience,it is never abnormal,strange and abysmal for anyone to feel cheated or discouraged but one thing that sure is that at this point that the latent strength in us ought to push us forward to forge ahead continuing doing what is necessary,good and right for the elevation and emancipation of the entire world.

 

Every human being on the surface of the earth can be likened to a farmer.While some of will sow a good seed on a good soil,some will sow a bad seed on a good soil but it is only few people that would sow a good seed on a good soil.

 

Then, while the seed sown by you is strangled and prevented to germinate due to poor societal systematic decadence,it is pertinent for you to encourage yourself ,dust yourself and keep moving until you get a good seed in your hand and a good soil whereby it will be sown,germinate and end up becoming an evergreen tree that will turn into a forest in the nearest future.

 

No matter how inconsequential an effort geared towards alleviating the plight of the next person around you might be,it is reasonable and rationale that it should be appreciated but it is appalling and disheartning that the system being operated in our world today has no value and appreciation for truthful human endeavour chanelled towards making the world a better place,hence many people that have good intention to make things better ends up being frustrated and they keep on asking questions about “what is the next step”.

 

No matter how disappointed and discouraged you are, the best way to handle this kind of experience is for you to become relentless and unrepentant in your desire to make things right in the course of your existence on earth.

 

Though,many of your efforts will end up being unappreciated with some of it ending up putting you in problem and also making you to be at a logger-head with some people,cabals and authorities.

 

The best solution is for you to define your goals,targets and fashion out series of strategies that will allow your efforts to be appreciated.

 

Always remember that there are over 7 billion people that needs the littleness of your efforts to trigger and birth the latent greatness inherent in them.

 

In conclusion, whenever your effort in alleviating the plight of one person is not appreciated, do not give up,always remember that the world you live in has a population of over 7 billion people.Always remember and consider the remaining sea of heads that are waiting for the unappreciated effort wasted on that one person.That effort expended on one person that is not appreciated and valued is enough, powerful and potent to raise million of people out of the miry clay.

 

Once your effort is not appreciated, change the scope and make sure you find other people that are in dire need of what you can offer as a form of effort and resources needed for their dream to come to reality.

 

In essence, the next step is for you to look for other people that will appreciate what you can offer.

 

You have wasted precious time being pensive and ruminating about what the next step.

 

Maximize your precious time to look for people that need what you can offer.

 

Tag:

 

#next step#

 

#sex#

 

#ethnicity#

 

#race#

 

#population#

 

Ref:

 

http://www.fotor.com

 

http://unsplash.com

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WHY CAN’T YOU RUN AFTER YOUR DREAM?—(10 MINUTES READ).

I was on transit recently in a bus one beautiful morning and there was this young man who sat just close to me.He started a converstaion and we got talking in the course of the long journey.He obviously was an extrovert, so it wasn’t difficult for him to pick up a chat.

 

Somehow I got to know he was thirty-three years old sometimes after that day.He was keeping my company with all his gists.

 

And then, he asked me about what I am doing for a living.Gladly,I told him what I was into at first and then smiled with greater hope for years to come.

 

Suddenly,he kept mute and his countenance changed and went down.

 

Hi!

 

You aren’t saying anything….I said.

 

He took a deep breath and sighed…

 

Hmmm….could this be what people refer to as “enemy of progress”.I thought.

 

But he doesn’t know me,I pondered.

 

It was glaring that something was wrong at that point.I needed not a soothsayers to tell me.

 

But I chose to keep quiet.Then I turned to the window side and avoided anymore talk.

 

Few minutes after I turned, he called for my attention, and then he later opened up to me that he was frustrated with his career choice.He made it clear that where he was at that point was as a wrong decision made back in high school by trying to be where his friends and colleagues were or doing what they wanted.

 

According to him,he wasn’t satisfied, he was struggling with such inner pain and the height of it all was that he had just made a decision to start all over again from sciences to arts and humanities.

 

Of course, it’s never too late to right the wrong but then, time is no man’s friend.He missed out at the early stage.

 

At this juncture, I want you to look at yourself deeply,check your life in the mirror of the path you are treading on and ask yourself these questions:

 

Am I fulfilled?

Am I happy with the choices I made?

Can I stand alone without trying to bank on people in this journey where I am towing?

 

I really need you to take a pause and answer these questions wholeheartedly without deceit and with a clear conscience.

 

If your answer is positive, I congratulate you.

 

If your answer is negative, I really also appreciate your sincerity and then I asked that you paused, ponder and have a rethink on the danger of following someone’s else’s dream.

 

There is one thing you should understand,which is,there is only one ‘you’ and you were born,made and wired for a specific purpose.

 

People, friends and familiars might laugh at you while you are moving on your path but you must understand that all jesting and mockery would only be for a season that would end up fizzling out when the result begins to manifest.

 

You were not born to be like everybody or someone else.You are unique and special.

 

Now tell me,what would be unique about you if your life was exactly like someone else or you do exactly what every of your friends do?

 

The specialty and uniqueness in you was set to affect someone’s life or even a large number of people.

 

In my days in high school, there was this notion about those in the arts department which is somehow negative,It was about art students not being intelligent and smart pupils are meant for science and technical departments.

 

There were conflicts within me.I knew I had an inbuilt affinity for arts naturally but then I never wanted to be recokned with anything that has to do with being tagged, counted and called a dull or an unintelligent student.

 

Fortunately for me,I thank goodness for sending my then English Language teacher who came at the right time and whispered a seemingly light but then strong word to me.He said,’it is better to be where you can be at your best than to be where you might end up being confused’.

 

And today,with a glad heart,I can proudly say that Art is life.I would have been less relevant if I had gone my way because of what people think or what people would say.

 

SELF DISCOVERY

 

I have mentors–People I looked up or admire their lifestyle but that doesn’t neccessarily mean that I have to be like them.I can only emulate some attributes, values and virtues that sustained them in their journey to be whom I was meant to be.

 

In other words, it is not wrong for you to have mentors, as a matter of fact having a mentor challenges you to greater and lofty heights but you must put on that mentality of wanting to be better than your mentor by reaching for more higher grounds.

 

This does not come easily by mere wishes or wishful-thinking, it comes by extra responsibilities, sacrifices,selflessness,commitment,dedication and responsiveness.

 

Being succesful entails doing more to get more.It comes as an outcome of discipline that is incomparable in terms of dedication, diligence and commitment.

 

When you find yourself on the right path, there is a kind of easiness, candour, calmness and self-fulfilment that accompany such.

 

It is when your purpose is discovered and when it is followed strictly that the essence of your existence becomes achievable.

 

To make personal discovery demands personal investment in terms of personal development that entails soul searching  fashioned towards understanding your area of strength and your area of weakness which is one of the focal points of what SWOT ANALYSIS entails.

 

SWOT ANALYSIS simply entails identification of internal strength and weaknesses as well as external opportunities and threat.

 

The benefit of SWOT ANALYSIS is to make you to understand the essence of taking personal responsibilities that will birth self discovery fashioned towards self development wrapped with continous and periodic self appraisal that will aid the total development of the entirety of any human life.

 

The best you can do for yourself in the course of your existence is for you to stop running after another person’s dream and make sure you run after your own dreams until it becomes handy and a subject of practical reality that will be dynamic and flexible enough to entertain and accommodate others who are yet to understand what it takes to run after personal dreams in the course of earthly existence.

 

As it is, we are all created, designed and wired to deliver a message to the world in the course of our exitence on earth but it is pitiful that it is only few people that are prepared and have what it takes to deliver the message before the curtain of their existence on earth is drawn.

 

In conclusion, your best is reserved for that moment you are able to define your path and you are able to walk on it without being distracted with what people might end up saying about the path you decided to take.

 

 

**Special thanks to Onyekwere Joy Ify— for sending part of this article to me for editing and also allowing me to publish it .

 

 

Tag:

#Dreams#

 

#Self-fulfilment#

 

#Self-appraisal#

 

#Self-development#

 

#Inspiration#

 

#Motivation#

 

 

Ref:

 

http://www.fotor.com

 

http://unsplash.com

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10 IMPORTANCE OF EFFECTIVE COMMUNICATION IN BOOSTING BLISFUL CONJUGAL COEXISTENCE.–(5 MINUTES READ).

It is quite appalling and disheartning that the age-long institution of marriage convennated by God have been suffering series of attacks and utmost abberration of the purpose of what it entails have been the order of the day.

 

One should be bothered and greatly concerned about the waves of divorce and domestic violence being experienced recently in the annals of human history most especially domestic violence and abuse that has its origin within the conffines and space of marital relationship.

 

Every married couple desire, demand and expect a kind of beauty,bliss and satisfaction that is heavenly and wonderful in the course of their conjugal coexistence but it is a pity that it is only few of the married couples that are able to meet up and achieve the manisfestation of their heart desire about their marital union.

 

With this,it is pertinent and reasonable for some salient questions to be asked in order to get the real picture about the reasons and rationale that is making vows made by husband and wife to fizzle out and disappear into thin air without its fulfilment in the course of their marital coexistence.

 

Definitely,there must be a missing link, a misconception, a delta,a gap and a lacuna.Whatever it might be,there is always more than one million reasons why marriage fails.

 

One of the major reasons that accounts visible and significantly for marital failures and crackdown in recent time especially in this generation is the dearth or absolute absence of effective communication between couples in the course of their marital union.

 

According to wikipedia.org:

 

“Communication is the act of conveying intended meanings from one entity or group to another through the use of mutually understood signs and semotic rules.Communication can be verbal or non-verbal and written or non-written”.

 

eFFECTIVE COMMUNICATION (2)
EFFECTIVE COMMUNICATION ENHANCES BLISFUL CONJUGAL COEXISTENCE.

 

 

No matter what the type of communication is involved,what really matters is that any form of communication between husband and wife must be total,efficient and effective with it ending in understanding that will make their relationship all-encompassing and meaningful.

 

IMPORTANCE OF EFFECTIVE COMMUNICTION.

 

1.It enhances trustworthiness and smooth relationship.

2.It promotes honesty.

3.It makes conjugal relationship interesting.

4.It enhances deeper understanding between couples.

5.It offers efficient solutions to dispute and conflicts resolution between husband and wife.

6.It ensures stronger affinity and closeness between husband and wife.

7.It propel and project unity between husband and wife.

8.It enhances cooperation.

9.It ensures friendliness and ignites unending flames of love.

10.It creates avenues and channels for heart to heart relationship between husband and wife.

 

 

eFFECTIVE COMMUNICATION (1)
EFFECTIVE COMMUNICATION ENHANCES BLISFUL CONJUGAL COEXISTENCE.

 

Without any iota of doubt, the aforementionaed importance of effective communication are powerful and potent enough to enhance the entrenchment of the purpose of marriage if couples involved are willing to maximized and optimized the benefits inherents in effective communiocation to fan the flame of deeper understanding that will end up making their conjugal coexistence an evergreen story and a message to posterity.

 

 

“Personal understanding garnished with willingness makes every iota of dreams become a reality within a space of time”.

 

 

Tag:

 

#Conjugal Coexistence#

 

#Marriage#

 

#Couple#

 

#Effective Communication#

 

#Importance#

 

#Blisful#

 

REF:

 

http://www.wikipedia.org

 

http://www.fotor.com

 

http://www.google.com.ng

 

 

 

 

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31 BASIC NECESSITIES FOR A BIGGER,BETTER,BOLDER AND BRIGHTER 2018.—(4 MINUTES READ).

CONCLUSION.

 

 

Without any iota of doubt,much have been written and published in this serial,topical and Knowledge-based inspirational and motivational articles that started at the beginning of the new year to serve as a booster and enhancer of pushinh any form of of positive intention and expectations that always accompany the line of thought of veryone at the commencement of the new year.

 

 

It has been an all-encompassing publication that is construed and designed in form of daily nuggets specifically attached to each day of the first month of the new year which accounted for the reason why the basic necessities are 31 in number.

 

 

It is a fact of reality that obeys both natural,spiritual and supernatural law that there is always a beginning and an end to everything.

 

THANK YOU
THANK YOU ALL!!!

 

 

The beginning of this episodic-serial publications has been awesome and fulfilling ,also the end has been accomplishing ,overwhelmimg and satisfactory as this publication has imparted and prepared many viewers,readers and followers who took their time to read along and digest the contents of this topical publications.

 

 

This is an idea pushed by the author and it is prone and available to criticism and any form of additional contribution that will serve the purpose of enhancing all- round human capital development aimed at making human development a reference point targetted at making the world a better place.

 

 

In view of this,I declared and presented this page as the concluding part of my publication for the month of January 2018.

 

 

It has been 31 different nuggets targetted to enhance your views and beliefs that 2108 becomes fulfilling when your service, selflessness and sacrifice are not compromised and toiled with.

(PAGE 1:CONCLUSION).

 

 

APPRECIATION.

 

 

Without any gainsaying,the efforts and time invested by all my readers,viewers and followers can never be overlooked and underestimated because this has been a source of encouragement to me to do more by taking my time to give my best in satisfying  and meeting up the desire of everyone who are already part of my dream and success story to build a media channel that will have a household brand accompany with meaningful imparts in the course of life.

 

It has been wonderful and magnificient having the crops of personalities that have been part of my blog since inception.

 

THANKS
DEO GRATIS!!!

 

What I can just offer at this moment is my heartfelt appreciation.

 

Thank you all for giving me chance to publish “31 BASIC NECESSITIES FOR A BIGGER,BETTER,BOLDER AND A BRIGHTER 2108—NUGGET 1-31.

 

Thanks for reading.

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WHY ARE YOU KNOCKING THE WRONG DOOR?—(6 Minutes Read).

In the course of the weekend, I fixed an appointment with someone on Monday,27th of November 2017 during lunch break in an Office that is a stone throw away from my place of work.

 

When I got to the front of the office complex, I tried calling him again ti inform him of my presence at his office as earlier planned and purposed by the two of us but his number was switched off.So, I have to copy the next phone number printed on the banner that was outside signifying his business office but I observed that another person picked the call and directed me to meet the reception or the security at the gate asking for a lady called christianah.

 

Immediately,after the instruction, I cut the call and proceeded to the receptionist downstair by the gate.

“Good afternoon Sir”!….I greeted.

“Afternoon sir”…..he responded.

 

“I was asked to ask of a lady called Christianah”….I continued speaking with the receptionist.

 

“Ok”!

“You will have to follow this path by your right and go upstairs to the third floor and ask of her”…..he replied.

 

“But before you proceed, kindly fill this form”…he continued talking.

 

I picked up a pen placed on the table and fill the form that was designed to document some information about me and the person I want to see.

 

Immediately, I finished filling the form, I proceeded and follow the instruction given to me stricrly and after climbing the stair case till I got to the third floor, I was standing infront of a door knocking but there was no response.After some trial knocking and it seems nobody is ready to respond, I placed my hand on the door Knob and I press it down and it was at this moment I realized that the door was not locked at all.

 

When I opened and enter, my sight was filled with the presence of a beautiful lady which I think might be a secretary or a receptionist having a scarf on her head which I think she might be a muslim.

 

dOOR KNOB

 While she gave out a smiling gesture,she was like:

 

“You shouldn’t have waited knocking”

 

And I was like:

 

“Courtesy demand that I knock your door, I can’t just barge into your office like that”.

 

While I was downstairs before I met the security guards, I made a call and I have been asked to ask of Christianah.So after, answering the beautiful receptionist upstairs,I asked her of a lady called Christianah.Immediately, I mentioned Christianah, a lady with a sonorous voice just answered from another office that is not too far from that of the receptionist attending to me.

 

Christianah was like:

 

“You can come inside”.

 

While I attempted taking some step forward, I realised that there were many office doors around.

I answered Christianah like this:

“Where is the inside o”

She later directed me into her office.

 

The purpose of the short meeting was fulfilled with a particular form given to me which I quickly filled within a twinkling of an eye because I didnt want to spend all the sixty minutes given to me by company for rest and lunch break outside.

 

As I finished and bade goodbye to Christianah,less I forget,Christianah is also a beautiful ebony too but the receptionist  was a lttle bit light in complexion.

 

So as I turned my back at Christianah,I wanted to open a particular door and I later she corrected me as I was approaching the door.

 

She was like:

“No!Thats not the right door”.

 

It was at this point that the door I approached initially would have led me to another office entirely.

 

She later showed me the right door that led to the receptionist office and later I bade the receptionist goodbye as I approached the entry door that exited me out of the company’s premises.

 

It was while I was appraising my activities for the day later at the end of yesterday that I was inspired to write about this piece tagged:

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“WHY OPENING THE WRONG DOOR”

 

No doubt about it, our existence on earth will always present unto us many doors that are always irrestitible in every sense.They are beautiful doors that portrays great opportunities and some presents promises of a better and a brighter future to us at one point in time.

 

 

Since the doors life present to us are always many with the promises of many life changing opportunities, this always put a pressure and the responsibility on us in choosing the right one at the right time.

oPEN DOOR

 

 

Though, there are many potential doors openned wide to us but ironically, it bis not every openned door that leads to a point whereby we can obtain what we are purposed for.

 

Some doors are opened intentionally to bring us back to square one and all round slavery while others are opened to entrap us and choke the plan and purpose of God for us.

 

 

“It is not every door that can take you to your destination.Some doors are openned to take us into destitution and servitude that is designed and tailored pin us down on a spot without any reason”

 

Many people have been a victim of opening the wrong door and they had used their hands to open a door that will keep them in boundage till eternity.

 

 

“In life,it is not the access to a door that matters but the access to the right door that will attract the right opportunities is what that matters because life is designed to present unto us many doors that are wide opened”.

 

 

This places an arduous task on us in knowing the right door to be opened at the right time by the right key for the right purpose.

 

 

It is unti when all these are known and put in place that your desired plan and purpose can be established in the course of your existence on earth.

 

 

Doors are opened to mould us while doors are also opened to mar us.It depends on which door is opened by us.

 

 

 

Opening a wrong door simply conotes and trigger regrets, setback and all round servitude but the right door is the door that is potent enough to trigger the launch of the potentials in us and it is fervent enough to birth the fulfilment of our God given destiny and potentials.

 

 

“Those who are classified among the successful and the greatest are those who have been opportuned in the course of their existence on earth to open the right door with the right key at the right time for the right purpose which end up launching them into the realm of making the right decision that birthed the right success”.

 

 

The struggle and stress of any man terminates at the point whereby the right door is located, opened with the right key for the right purpose.

 

It is at this point the right success can be obtained at the right time.

 

 

Doors are keys to the destiny of every man and woman.No destiny will be fulfilled without the location of the right door at the right time in the course of human existence on earth.

 

 

In conclusion,it is important for everyone to discover the right door and the right key designed for the right purpose at the right time for the purpopse of fulfilling destiny at the right time.

 

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WHY CAN’T YOU RUN AFTER YOUR DREAM?—(10 MINUTES READ).

I was on transit recently in a bus one beautiful morning and there was this young man who sat just close to me.He started a converstaion and we got talking in the course of the long journey.He obviously was an extrovert, so it wasn’t difficult for him to pick up a chat.

 

Somehow I got to know he was thirty-three years old sometimes after that day.He was keeping my company with all his gists.

 

And then, he asked me about what I am doing for a living.Gladly,I told him what I was into at first and then smiled with greater hope for years to come.

 

Suddenly,he kept mute and his countenance changed and went down.

 

Hi!

 

You aren’t saying anything….I said.

 

He took a deep breath and sighed…

 

Hmmm….could this be what people refer to as “enemy of progress”.I thought.

 

But he doesn’t know me,I pondered.

 

It was glaring that something was wrong at that point.I needed not a soothsayers to tell me.

 

But I chose to keep quiet.Then I turned to the window side and avoided anymore talk.

 

Few minutes after I turned, he called for my attention, and then he later opened up to me that he was frustrated with his career choice.He made it clear that where he was at that point was as a wrong decision made back in high school by trying to be where his friends and colleagues were or doing what they wanted.

 

According to him,he wasn’t satisfied, he was struggling with such inner pain and the height of it all was that he had just made a decision to start all over again from sciences to arts and humanities.

 

Of course, it’s never too late to right the wrong but then, time is no man’s friend.He missed out at the early stage.

 

At this juncture, I want you to look at yourself deeply,check your life in the mirror of the path you are treading on and ask yourself these questions:

 

Am I fulfilled?

Am I happy with the choices I made?

Can I stand alone without trying to bank on people in this journey where I am towing?

 

I really need you to take a pause and answer these questions wholeheartedly without deceit and with a clear conscience.

 

If your answer is positive, I congratulate you.

 

If your answer is negative, I really also appreciate your sincerity and then I asked that you paused, ponder and have a rethink on the danger of following someone’s else’s dream.

 

There is one thing you should understand,which is,there is only one ‘you’ and you were born,made and wired for a specific purpose.

 

People, friends and familiars might laugh at you while you are moving on your path but you must understand that all jesting and mockery would only be for a season that would end up fizzling out when the result begins to manifest.

 

You were not born to be like everybody or someone else.You are unique and special.

 

Now tell me,what would be unique about you if your life was exactly like someone else or you do exactly what every of your friends do?

 

The specialty and uniqueness in you was set to affect someone’s life or even a large number of people.

 

In my days in high school, there was this notion about those in the arts department which is somehow negative,It was about art students not being intelligent and smart pupils are meant for science and technical departments.

 

There were conflicts within me.I knew I had an inbuilt affinity for arts naturally but then I never wanted to be recokned with anything that has to do with being tagged, counted and called a dull or an unintelligent student.

 

Fortunately for me,I thank goodness for sending my then English Language teacher who came at the right time and whispered a seemingly light but then strong word to me.He said,’it is better to be where you can be at your best than to be where you might end up being confused’.

 

And today,with a glad heart,I can proudly say that Art is life.I would have been less relevant if I had gone my way because of what people think or what people would say.

 

SELF DISCOVERY

 

I have mentors–People I looked up or admire their lifestyle but that doesn’t neccessarily mean that I have to be like them.I can only emulate some attributes, values and virtues that sustained them in their journey to be whom I was meant to be.

 

In other words, it is not wrong for you to have mentors, as a matter of fact having a mentor challenges you to greater and lofty heights but you must put on that mentality of wanting to be better than your mentor by reaching for more higher grounds.

 

This does not come easily by mere wishes or wishful-thinking, it comes by extra responsibilities, sacrifices,selflessness,commitment,dedication and responsiveness.

 

Being succesful entails doing more to get more.It comes as an outcome of discipline that is incomparable in terms of dedication, diligence and commitment.

 

When you find yourself on the right path, there is a kind of easiness, candour, calmness and self-fulfilment that accompany such.

 

It is when your purpose is discovered and when it is followed strictly that the essence of your existence becomes achievable.

 

To make personal discovery demands personal investment in terms of personal development that entails soul searching  fashioned towards understanding your area of strength and your area of weakness which is one of the focal points of what SWOT ANALYSIS entails.

 

SWOT ANALYSIS simply entails identification of internal strength and weaknesses as well as external opportunities and threat.

 

The benefit of SWOT ANALYSIS is to make you to understand the essence of taking personal responsibilities that will birth self discovery fashioned towards self development wrapped with continous and periodic self appraisal that will aid the total development of the entirety of any human life.

 

The best you can do for yourself in the course of your existence is for you to stop running after another person’s dream and make sure you run after your own dreams until it becomes handy and a subject of practical reality that will be dynamic and flexible enough to entertain and accommodate others who are yet to understand what it takes to run after personal dreams in the course of earthly existence.

 

As it is, we are all created, designed and wired to deliver a message to the world in the course of our exitence on earth but it is pitiful that it is only few people that are prepared and have what it takes to deliver the message before the curtain of their existence on earth is drawn.

 

In conclusion, your best is reserved for that moment you are able to define your path and you are able to walk on it without being distracted with what people might end up saying about the path you decided to take.

 

 

**Special thanks to Onyekwere Joy Ify— for sending part of this article to me for editing and also allowing me to publish it .

 

 

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WHEN WILL YOU STOP MOURNING?—(12 MINUTES READ).

Early this morning,my mind just transcend into a realm that ended up into a reflection triggering a thought about a familiar  and his story in recent years bothered my conscience to the point that I ended up asking myself this question that made the title of this piece intended to be  a source of inspiration and motivation for me and everyone that is interested in reading along with me.

 

It goes thus:

 

He was in a relationship with his fiancee and the relationship has been on course for years with the expectation that both will soon walk down the isle.At a point, preparation for introduction was already at a top gear with the two love-birds preparing to know and familiarise with members of their families.

 

The joy of the fulfilment of the expected proposed introduction of the two families were overwhelming with both couples looking ahead to witness a moment and a day whereby what they have invested their time and resources into for couples of years will soon become a reality.

 

Alas!!!

 

 

MOURNING 2
 

WHEN WILL YOU STOP MOURNING?

 

 

The unexpected happen and it was grievious to the point that the relationship was finally put asunder.

 

The lady in question was on her way to her country home for a funeral ceremony of a family member and while on their way to her country home,she lost her life in a ghastly auto-crash and the relationship went into an abyss.

 

News of her death was received with waves of shock and the guy in question nearly lost his mind in the course of this occurrence.

 

It was at this point the relationship crashed just as the life of the lady in question varnished into a thin air.

 

The guy in question spent a bunch of his time to mourn the irreparable loss of his fiancee over a long period of time which subjected him to physical emaciation and psychological depriviation.

 

This is not in anyway strange at all for anyone who has lost a loved one.It is normal that the person concerned should spent bunch of his precious time to mourn the exit of someone dear to him.

 

The character in the eye of the storm had this experience in 2014, he is a guy that is of age,close to 40 years or even above 40 years, and at this age, every one expected that after close to four years of the demise of his fiancee, he ought to have taken a step in starting another relationship but to the best of my understanding, he is not in any relationship and he seems not to be interested not to talk of making any trial or attempt that will end up making him to walk down the isle with someone soon.

 

It was this issue that was on my mind this morning and while ruminating about his ordeal, all I could ask myself was that:

 

“When will he stop mourning?”

“Will he take  a decade or a century to mourn the loss of his heartrob?”

 

“If so, when will he attempt another relationship with another lady?”

 

“When will the marital bell ring?”

 

Though, these arrays of questions might be difficult to answer by the concerned person because the deceased might be the best among the best but one factual reality in life is that there can never be an end to the best.There will always be the best of every human specie as long as we are ready to invest the necessary resources make the best out of every human.

 

In order not to drift to the extreme,let’s reason together in inspiring and motivating each other.

 

It is known fact that the beauty of life is cheapily and easitly expressed amidst the grip of challenges.Challenges are the major parameters and decimals that make the purpose of humanity to find reasonable expression in the course of existence on earth.

 

More often than  none,challenges always surface in a negative and in a retrogressive order but many challenges that have been conquered and chronicled in the annals of human history were known to end up with positivity accompanied by productivity being enhanced.

 

So, while we are experiencing a down moment and while we are having a negative upturn of reality in the course of our existence on earth,it is expedient for you and I to have a deep understanding that our challenges if they are managed properly and maintained effectively, they are inherently potent enough to launch us to a realm whereby we become better and our story of victory will make us to become a cynosure of all eyes.

 

 

MOURNING 3
 

WHEN WILL YOU STOP MOURNING?

 

 

It is normal,acceptable and human for anyone who lost a loved one to mourn and remained saddened but it is essential that while anyone is passing through this phase that you allow your eyes to be opened in clarity to behold the beauty of life that lies ahead of you.

 

No doubt about it,life is in phases and the phases of life always modulate between a high moment and a low moment.And no matter how long we live,these two phases are bound to interfere and affect us to a large extent mentally, psychologically,socially,economically, and financially.

 

We are created and wired in a manner that we should not always expect the unexpected but the reality of life is always exhibited and displayed in a manner that we should always expect the unexpected.There is a need for us not to shy away from this reality of life that often times than none,the life of every human being existing on earthly pedestal swings between the expected and the unexpected.

 

Every phase and every moment needs more of appropriate and prompt management of issues and situations by relying on the inherent values and benefits proferred by time to heal any form of injuries and wounds you might have sustained while you are deeply enmeshed in any form of challenges.

 

Without any iota of doubt, time heals.Time will always give you an ample opportunity to understand and see the brighter side of whatever you might be passing through because when there is life,hope of a better future always beckons.

 

There is hope for a glorious and a better future for anyone who believe in the concept of the healing virtues of time.

 

You might have lost a friend,a colleague,a relative and a heartrob to the cold hands of death and you might have been mourning over your loss for a long period of time,no matter how deeply the cut of your wounds and shattered heart might be, if you can give yourself time, the wound will heal up gradually.

 

It is at the point of allowing your wound to heal up, that you allow the best inherent in you to fizzle out thereby making you a better person with your story becoming a source of testimony and an article of motivation to others.

 

Never allow the moment of mourning you are passing through to take hold of the better part of you.The better part of you is made available for you to  be maximized and optimized for you to create a world whereby others that are passing through similar situationa and condition will learn from your story and have something to hold on to in the course of their passing through a phase that seems strange.

 

Weep not child!

 

Rise up!Rise up!! Rise up!!!

 

It is time for you to stand on your feet.

 

It is time for you to allow your days of mourning to fizzle out.

 

This is a personal responsibility.

 

You have what it takes to laugh even amidst the moment of mourning being experienced by you.

 

The best in every man is expressed when you are succesful in rising far above the challenges you are passing through.

 

Be the man you are created to be.

 

Heaven is in you.

 

Hell is in you.

 

You have all it takes to unravel the potentials in you.

 

Stop mourning!

 

Stop regretting!!

 

Stop weeping!!!

 

Ahead of you lies a glorious horizon.

 

Take hold of your glorious future.

 

Move on!!!

 

There are many coast and territories waiting to be conquered.

 

Never allow mourning to prevent you seeing a brighter day that lies ahead of you./

 

 

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WHY RUNNING A RAT RACE?–(4 Minutes Read).

This beautiful piece was published on my facebook wall on the 24th of November 2016,I saw it now and I made up my mind to bring it out to a larger audience for inspiration,motivation and empowerment of humacn minds that have been longing for inner peace that has been taken away totally from the existence of mankind which has been the present reality of this present generation with it potency in making many people to loose their comfort.

 

It goes thus:

 

Comparism is in vogue and fashionable now.I could remember recently someone seeing me doing something and he came around to ask me to teach and tutor him on the essence and modus operandi of the particular endeavour.

 

I paused for a while before responding by telling him that what he saw me doing is a product of vision and passion that started as a sort of trial till it start making sense now.I was able to let him understand that I wasnt tutored by anyone and it would be difficult for me to really explain how I started now, except if he can allow me by giving me time to put my lines of thought together in order to have a concise and deep explanation of what such endeavour is all about.

 

Immediately his countenance changed and murderous, and till now, he didn’t talk about it again.Recently, I understood that he thought that I didn’t want to teach him but I gave him a plain and a truthful response which I believe he didn’t believe me.

 

When I processed the encounter, I observed that many of us always run around what others are doing at a particular time without asking ourselves if we are designed and wired for such a thing.

 

Later, I remembered that this is what is simply called “THE RAT RACE”.

 

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Comparism will compel you to be ungrateful and unhappy with you running after shadow unendlessly and your rat race will be alarming, pronounced and deep without any limit.

 

It is a major source of jealousy and unhealthy rivalry that might propel someone to act negahattively and diabolically.Such people who are eating up by such inordinate quest has succeded in setting a limit on their progress in life because they have made the success of their assumed rival to be a standard for them. This will make it impossible to surpass the progress of their rival and they keep on running after their rival unendlessly.

 

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WHAT IS THE WAY OUT?

Contentment is the only way out from running after rat race undlessly.

 

Contentment triggers inner peace and comfort that is unexplainable to you and people around you.

 

No one will award you for competing with others.No prize will be given to you for engaging in a rat race.Immaturity triggers your insatiable taste and inordinate thirst or quest for comparing yourself with other.This is a major factor that makes people that have been eating up by such illogical desire to be a useful tool in the hand of the devil.A situation that debar many from being succesful in life because they are spending the essence and the beauty of their life monotoring and supervising other people’s progress and success while theres is left unattended to.This is simply cause by mediocrity,laxity,levity nad laziness in maximizing available resources and time at your disposal to discover what you are purposed for.

 

Every human is wired for differnt assignment and the assignment will be executed in a different way at a different period of time.

 

Those are matured in body,soul and spirit fashion their own ideology and philosophy that is suitable for their view about life and they stick to it solelely,strictly and diligently without being moved about whose ox is gored.

 

It is better and profitable to be a definition and description of our personal view by living above trivialities,foot-lings and frivolities of life which is what comparism that leads to rat race is all about.

 

Comparism is simply a thief of joy.

 

In conclusion,discover yourself and be yourself.

 

Stop living another person’s life.

 

Be a true definition of your innate potential not a copycat.

 

Those who live according to other people’s lifestyle strangle their joy and their potentials becomes useless.

 

Your life count better and meaningfully when tou are hell bent on living in accordance to the content and context of your view that is birthed by your innate potentials.

 

This is what triggers the emergence of self satisfaction and self discovery that is devoid of jealousy but have its core value in originality.

 

The questions are:

 

Are you original in your views and ways?

 

Are you a copycat?

 

Are you running the rat-race?

 

Are you living your own dream?

 

Are you existing on another man’s dream?

 

Once again,

 

“Comparism is a thief of joy”

 

Finally:

 

“Stop running the rat-race”

 

You are designed and wired for values and virtues that are more superior to that of others.

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31 BASIC NECESSITIES FOR A BIGGER,BETTER,BOLDER AND BRIGHTER 2018.—(4 MINUTES READ).

CONCLUSION.

 

 

Without any iota of doubt,much have been written and published in this serial,topical and Knowledge-based inspirational and motivational articles that started at the beginning of the new year to serve as a booster and enhancer of pushinh any form of of positive intention and expectations that always accompany the line of thought of veryone at the commencement of the new year.

 

 

It has been an all-encompassing publication that is construed and designed in form of daily nuggets specifically attached to each day of the first month of the new year which accounted for the reason why the basic necessities are 31 in number.

 

 

It is a fact of reality that obeys both natural,spiritual and supernatural law that there is always a beginning and an end to everything.

 

THANK YOU
THANK YOU ALL!!!

 

 

The beginning of this episodic-serial publications has been awesome and fulfilling ,also the end has been accomplishing ,overwhelmimg and satisfactory as this publication has imparted and prepared many viewers,readers and followers who took their time to read along and digest the contents of this topical publications.

 

 

This is an idea pushed by the author and it is prone and available to criticism and any form of additional contribution that will serve the purpose of enhancing all- round human capital development aimed at making human development a reference point targetted at making the world a better place.

 

 

In view of this,I declared and presented this page as the concluding part of my publication for the month of January 2018.

 

 

It has been 31 different nuggets targetted to enhance your views and beliefs that 2108 becomes fulfilling when your service, selflessness and sacrifice are not compromised and toiled with.

(PAGE 1:CONCLUSION).

 

 

APPRECIATION.

 

 

Without any gainsaying,the efforts and time invested by all my readers,viewers and followers can never be overlooked and underestimated because this has been a source of encouragement to me to do more by taking my time to give my best in satisfying  and meeting up the desire of everyone who are already part of my dream and success story to build a media channel that will have a household brand accompany with meaningful imparts in the course of life.

 

It has been wonderful and magnificient having the crops of personalities that have been part of my blog since inception.

 

THANKS
DEO GRATIS!!!

 

What I can just offer at this moment is my heartfelt appreciation.

 

Thank you all for giving me chance to publish “31 BASIC NECESSITIES FOR A BIGGER,BETTER,BOLDER AND A BRIGHTER 2108—NUGGET 1-31.

 

Thanks for reading.

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HOW CAN I LEAVE BEHIND EVERGREEN LEGACIES?—(6 Minutes Read).

I was busy with laundry on the 10th of December 2017 when this idea popped into my mind in the form of question.It was at this point that I decided that it will be important and imperative for my followers,readers and viewers to have a bite of this delicious piece of cake that I believed it will go in a long way to serve as an eye-openner to me as the author and every other person who desire deep inspiration and motivation that is neccesity in announcing the essence of human existence on earthly pedestal.

 

 

In the course of my elementary schooling, I could vividly remember that I was groomed and schooled being tutored about some people who left indellible marks in the test of time and they were always referred to as heroes and heroine due to the impact and impart made by them that ended up transforming the existence of humanity accompanied by the positive effects of their contributions that provided a solution to multifarious challenges that is bedevilling and plaguing human existence at one point or the other.

 

 

While in retrospect of what was learnt then,I decided to present this topical write up intended to delve into some of the values and virtues that made my elementary school days to be filled with dreams,vision and passion of becoming someone that will be a source of positive reference to others in the form of mentor and mentee relationship.

 

 

Some of the values and virtues that made these people to become what they are in the annals of human history are:

  • Vision.

  • Passion.

  • Dedication and commitment.

  • Being Hardworking.

  • Honesty.

  • Being bold and daring.

  • Being sacrificial and selfless.

  • Ability to recognise the needful and other neccessities.

  • Ability to engage timely intervention to solve problems and challenges.

  • Smartness and the possession of will power.

  • Strength to go extra mile in order to contribute positively.

  • Agility and composure.

 

 

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These are some of the factors that enhance and empower these people to make their living meaningful and contributory in the course of their existence.

 

 

It is even chronicled in the history of these great men and women that some of them put their lifes on the line and dared extreme danger and inhumanity meted against them by their oppressor in other for people looking up to them with the coming generation to be enjoy the beauty and the fulfillment of liberty while existing on earth.

 

Some of these people were labelled as an outlaw and an outcast loosing their possession for a struggle that is aimed at liberating the oppressed and the downtrodden in the society.

 

 

In the course of the struggle, some were maimed,killed and incancerated just because they are fighting for what is right and what they believed in.

 

 

These are people that willingly sacrifice their comfort and convenience for the generation yet unborn to enjoy freedom and liberation from oppression and every form of inhumanity.

 

 

The period of colonisation and imperialism in the continent of Africa were filled with the stories of these great men and women who sacrificed their lifes in other for slavery to be abolished.It was chronicled that the Trans-Atlantic Slave trade stripped off the continent of Africa of valuables in terms of natural and human resources,a kind of endeavour that was construed and it prosper for so long that many able bodied men and women were transported on the high sea to faciliate the triangular slave trade from Africa to Europe and finally to the land of America.

 

 

These kind of inhumanity was stopped and aborted with the help of some people who fought with every pinch of their blood and every ounce of their flesh to make sure that all the countries in Africa were liberated and independence was given at the end of the day.

 

No one can forget what Nelson Mandela,Martin Luther King Jr,Julius Nyerere of Tanzania,Obafemi Awolowo,Nnamdi Azikwe and others sacrificed to ,ake sure that the continent of Africa experienced self-governance.

 

 

These sets of people are observed to be dreamers and visioners passionate about sacrificing whatever is necessary for what they believed in to see the light of the day.

 

 

The success of their struggle was not given on a platter of gold and it was not a piece of cake given in a party but it is a selfless sacrifice that made so many people to loose their life in the course of the struggle for the liberation and emancipation of humanity platformed on the respect and protection of human right.

 

 

The contributions of these great minds placed a kind of weighty responsibility on all of us that the legacies left behind must be protected and preserved by developing their contributions to a concept that will serve as a tool of information,mentorship and tutorship for the world to have the rising of other giants and trailblazers that will be at the forefront of championing courses of humanity that will trigger the transformation of the entire world into a place where the dreams, visions and aspirations of everyone to come into reality.

 

 

It is possible for all of us to leave behind evergreen legacies in the course of our existence if we are willing of contributing our quota in a positive and a little way to see to the development and transformation of the entire world by being sensitive and conscious of what need to be done to be a part of the progress and development that is eluding the entire world.

 

 

In conclusion,legacies are made and they become evergreen when we make sure that we strife in contributing positively to human existence while we are living.The impact of our living and the impart of our existence must be felt by people around us no matter how insignificant the contribution might be.Those who ended up leaving a legacy behind don’t sit down doing nothing in contributing in amelioriating and salvaging human suffering as it is being witnessed across the length and breadth of the entire world.

 

 

It is on this concept and context that great leaders are made with their contributions being loud even when they have drawn the curtain.

 

 

“Servanthood makes great leaders and contributions makes evergreen legacies”.

 

 

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WHAT ARE THE NECESSITIES FOR ACHIEVING SET GOALS?.—(5 Minutes Read).

This idea occupied my line of thought just now which could be submitted as an outcome of my personal appraisal about my plans concerning year 2017 when it started about twelve months ago.

 

It came like a sort of questioning asking myself about how far I have gone achieving some laid down aims and objectives designed for the achievement of my goals from the beginning of 2017 till this present moment.

 

While I was able to achieve some, others remained untouched till this present moment due to certain circumstances that are somehow hard beyond my ability and capacity to comprehend what could have happened in preventing such aim and objectives from becoming handy and a object of reality.

 

One of the goals I planned achieving in the course of 2017 which I will mention is getting my blogsphere upgraded to premium so that it can become monetised but looking back at the realities of this year, I observed that I was unable to get it done.

 

The year started specially with multifarious practical realities, some were expected while others are unexpected.Just as the saying goes:

 

“Always expect the unexpected”

 

There are two practical realities that accompany 2017 and these realities are:

 

  • The expected
  • The unexpected.

 

I will refrain to a large extent from going deep into the two aforementioned realities so that there will not be a major digression from the subject matter but one thing that is cocksure is that :

 

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“Why is it that dreams and plans are made continually and continuosly on a daily basis by every one living on earthly pedestal but only few of the visions made becomes a subject and an object of reality?”

 

This is a one million dollar question that is as old as the world itself.It is a question that is being asked by every human being and it will continue to be a question that will be asked till the end of age but few people who understand the secrets of earthly mysteries will be empowered to give reasonable practical answers to this question.

 

The possibilities of the realities of your dreams,plans and aspirations end up being  fulfilled when you are able to meet up with the set goals.Goals are the catalysts that speed up the rate and speed at which our laid down dreams,plans and aspirations can be achieved expressly.

 

In contrast,many people are fond of making and creating goals towards achieving a set target but the achievements are always difficult and impossible,and the reasons for such impossibility and difficulty needs to be highlighted one after the other.

 

These are viz:

 

  • Inconsitency in meeting up with set goals.
  • Lack of focus.
  • Distraction.
  • Dishonesty.
  • Lack of interest.
  • Lack of discipline and self-control.
  • Laziness and floppiness.
  • Lack of determination and commitment.
  • Lack of persevearance and persistency
  • Lack of will-power
  • Lack of vision
  • Lack of ability to live a selfless and sacrificial lifestyle.
  • Wastefulness of resources
  • Procrastination

 

These are some of the thorns that are potent enough to choke any form of goals laid down in the course of your bid to achieve the beauty of your dreams,plans and aspiration at any point in time.

 

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These are sets of factors that cluster as a colony,a canopy and a covering to blur your desire and drive to achieve a set goals in the course of the year.

 

Every year becomes beautiful when your goals become a reality but bthe reality of the goals can never see the light of the day once some of these factors have their assemblage in your approach to achieve what is needed to make your dreams,plans and aspiration a confirmed practical reality.

 

Your desire and drive to achieve your set goals and targets are akin to a journey and a sojourn.For any journey to be smooth and succesful, such must be free from obstacles and clogs that constitute a wall of resistance to the success of such journey.

 

In conclusion, we are all at the tail end of the year whereby it is necessary for personal appraisal and stock-taking must be made in order to visualise how far you have gone in achieving you set goals and target.

 

This must be carried out by anyone who desire proper monitoring of personal progress and achievement so that proper preparation can be made in correcting the lapses of 2017 for 2018 to be more succesful and glorious in all ramifications.

 

“HAPPY NEW YEAR IN ADVANCE”.

 

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WHAT IS THE NEXT STEP?—(5 MINUTES READ).

Without any doubt,this is one of the questions that always accompany the achievement of a particular feat and task or series of accomplishment.

 

While some of us get clarity of what the next step ought to be or should be,others are always in quandary and utmost confusion of where to start from or what is the next step.

 

This phase of human existence is not strange and peculiar to a perticular tribe, sex,race,ethnicity,social group,peer group,political and religious affliation.The peculiarity of this phase of human existence is all encompassing and overwhelming to the point that everyone  found existing on earthly pedestal will pass through this phase asking and pondering about ‘what could be next step”.

 

It is a phase of life that can never be denied, dodged and overlooked.

 

It is a moment whereby decisions that will make or mar the destiny of anyone who is presently in existence.

 

It is a fact and a statement of assurance that over 7 billion population of human being is being accommodated on the surface of earth and they are all going to be a product of this phase or they are all going to get to get to a point in the course of their existence whereby such question will demand an answer from them.

 

After all have been done,

After all sacrifices and selfless inputs,

After given all the resources at your disposal,

After contributing immensely,

After giving a hand of help and hope to others,

After being the light amidst gross darkness,

After being lifting others from miry clay,

After crossing the rubicon,

After!After!!After!!!

What next!!!

 

No doubt about it,at a particular point in life, we are all going to encounter an experience that has to do with a feeling of satisfaction or a feeling of disappointment and discouragement.

 

We are all going to believe that we have done what we can do within our capacity to salvage and restore situations around us.We are all going to feel resentful and discouraged after all we have done in sacrificing selflessly for others but societal system deliberately or indeliberately failed to recognize,recommend and renumerate our efforts.

 

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WHAT IS THE NEXT?

 

In the midst of this experience,it is never abnormal,strange and abysmal for anyone to feel cheated or discouraged but one thing that sure is that at this point that the latent strength in us ought to push us forward to forge ahead continuing doing what is necessary,good and right for the elevation and emancipation of the entire world.

 

Every human being on the surface of the earth can be likened to a farmer.While some of will sow a good seed on a good soil,some will sow a bad seed on a good soil but it is only few people that would sow a good seed on a good soil.

 

Then, while the seed sown by you is strangled and prevented to germinate due to poor societal systematic decadence,it is pertinent for you to encourage yourself ,dust yourself and keep moving until you get a good seed in your hand and a good soil whereby it will be sown,germinate and end up becoming an evergreen tree that will turn into a forest in the nearest future.

 

No matter how inconsequential an effort geared towards alleviating the plight of the next person around you might be,it is reasonable and rationale that it should be appreciated but it is appalling and disheartning that the system being operated in our world today has no value and appreciation for truthful human endeavour chanelled towards making the world a better place,hence many people that have good intention to make things better ends up being frustrated and they keep on asking questions about “what is the next step”.

 

No matter how disappointed and discouraged you are, the best way to handle this kind of experience is for you to become relentless and unrepentant in your desire to make things right in the course of your existence on earth.

 

Though,many of your efforts will end up being unappreciated with some of it ending up putting you in problem and also making you to be at a logger-head with some people,cabals and authorities.

 

The best solution is for you to define your goals,targets and fashion out series of strategies that will allow your efforts to be appreciated.

 

Always remember that there are over 7 billion people that needs the littleness of your efforts to trigger and birth the latent greatness inherent in them.

 

In conclusion, whenever your effort in alleviating the plight of one person is not appreciated, do not give up,always remember that the world you live in has a population of over 7 billion people.Always remember and consider the remaining sea of heads that are waiting for the unappreciated effort wasted on that one person.That effort expended on one person that is not appreciated and valued is enough, powerful and potent to raise million of people out of the miry clay.

 

Once your effort is not appreciated, change the scope and make sure you find other people that are in dire need of what you can offer as a form of effort and resources needed for their dream to come to reality.

 

In essence, the next step is for you to look for other people that will appreciate what you can offer.

 

You have wasted precious time being pensive and ruminating about what the next step.

 

Maximize your precious time to look for people that need what you can offer.

 

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WHY ARE YOU KNOCKING THE WRONG DOOR?—(6 Minutes Read).

In the course of the weekend, I fixed an appointment with someone on Monday,27th of November 2017 during lunch break in an Office that is a stone throw away from my place of work.

 

When I got to the front of the office complex, I tried calling him again ti inform him of my presence at his office as earlier planned and purposed by the two of us but his number was switched off.So, I have to copy the next phone number printed on the banner that was outside signifying his business office but I observed that another person picked the call and directed me to meet the reception or the security at the gate asking for a lady called christianah.

 

Immediately,after the instruction, I cut the call and proceeded to the receptionist downstair by the gate.

“Good afternoon Sir”!….I greeted.

“Afternoon sir”…..he responded.

 

“I was asked to ask of a lady called Christianah”….I continued speaking with the receptionist.

 

“Ok”!

“You will have to follow this path by your right and go upstairs to the third floor and ask of her”…..he replied.

 

“But before you proceed, kindly fill this form”…he continued talking.

 

I picked up a pen placed on the table and fill the form that was designed to document some information about me and the person I want to see.

 

Immediately, I finished filling the form, I proceeded and follow the instruction given to me stricrly and after climbing the stair case till I got to the third floor, I was standing infront of a door knocking but there was no response.After some trial knocking and it seems nobody is ready to respond, I placed my hand on the door Knob and I press it down and it was at this moment I realized that the door was not locked at all.

 

When I opened and enter, my sight was filled with the presence of a beautiful lady which I think might be a secretary or a receptionist having a scarf on her head which I think she might be a muslim.

 

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 While she gave out a smiling gesture,she was like:

 

“You shouldn’t have waited knocking”

 

And I was like:

 

“Courtesy demand that I knock your door, I can’t just barge into your office like that”.

 

While I was downstairs before I met the security guards, I made a call and I have been asked to ask of Christianah.So after, answering the beautiful receptionist upstairs,I asked her of a lady called Christianah.Immediately, I mentioned Christianah, a lady with a sonorous voice just answered from another office that is not too far from that of the receptionist attending to me.

 

Christianah was like:

 

“You can come inside”.

 

While I attempted taking some step forward, I realised that there were many office doors around.

I answered Christianah like this:

“Where is the inside o”

She later directed me into her office.

 

The purpose of the short meeting was fulfilled with a particular form given to me which I quickly filled within a twinkling of an eye because I didnt want to spend all the sixty minutes given to me by company for rest and lunch break outside.

 

As I finished and bade goodbye to Christianah,less I forget,Christianah is also a beautiful ebony too but the receptionist  was a lttle bit light in complexion.

 

So as I turned my back at Christianah,I wanted to open a particular door and I later she corrected me as I was approaching the door.

 

She was like:

“No!Thats not the right door”.

 

It was at this point that the door I approached initially would have led me to another office entirely.

 

She later showed me the right door that led to the receptionist office and later I bade the receptionist goodbye as I approached the entry door that exited me out of the company’s premises.

 

It was while I was appraising my activities for the day later at the end of yesterday that I was inspired to write about this piece tagged:

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“WHY OPENING THE WRONG DOOR”

 

No doubt about it, our existence on earth will always present unto us many doors that are always irrestitible in every sense.They are beautiful doors that portrays great opportunities and some presents promises of a better and a brighter future to us at one point in time.

 

 

Since the doors life present to us are always many with the promises of many life changing opportunities, this always put a pressure and the responsibility on us in choosing the right one at the right time.

oPEN DOOR

 

 

Though, there are many potential doors openned wide to us but ironically, it bis not every openned door that leads to a point whereby we can obtain what we are purposed for.

 

Some doors are opened intentionally to bring us back to square one and all round slavery while others are opened to entrap us and choke the plan and purpose of God for us.

 

 

“It is not every door that can take you to your destination.Some doors are openned to take us into destitution and servitude that is designed and tailored pin us down on a spot without any reason”

 

Many people have been a victim of opening the wrong door and they had used their hands to open a door that will keep them in boundage till eternity.

 

 

“In life,it is not the access to a door that matters but the access to the right door that will attract the right opportunities is what that matters because life is designed to present unto us many doors that are wide opened”.

 

 

This places an arduous task on us in knowing the right door to be opened at the right time by the right key for the right purpose.

 

 

It is unti when all these are known and put in place that your desired plan and purpose can be established in the course of your existence on earth.

 

 

Doors are opened to mould us while doors are also opened to mar us.It depends on which door is opened by us.

 

 

 

Opening a wrong door simply conotes and trigger regrets, setback and all round servitude but the right door is the door that is potent enough to trigger the launch of the potentials in us and it is fervent enough to birth the fulfilment of our God given destiny and potentials.

 

 

“Those who are classified among the successful and the greatest are those who have been opportuned in the course of their existence on earth to open the right door with the right key at the right time for the right purpose which end up launching them into the realm of making the right decision that birthed the right success”.

 

 

The struggle and stress of any man terminates at the point whereby the right door is located, opened with the right key for the right purpose.

 

It is at this point the right success can be obtained at the right time.

 

 

Doors are keys to the destiny of every man and woman.No destiny will be fulfilled without the location of the right door at the right time in the course of human existence on earth.

 

 

In conclusion,it is important for everyone to discover the right door and the right key designed for the right purpose at the right time for the purpopse of fulfilling destiny at the right time.

 

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DESIRED SHARED AUTHORITY DESERVES SHARED RESPONSIBILITY.—(4 Minutes Read).

The original version of this article was written and published on Facebook on the 7th of September 2016.

 

I read through it not quite long and I am confident that the quality of the content therein will serve as an eye-opener and a source of inspiration and motivation for many marriages and relationship that are struggling to stand and those that are on the verge of collapsing.

 

I believed that the purpose will be fulfilled expressly.

 

This is how it goes:

 

Without any form of argument or being old schooled, marriage imposed a level of reasonable authority on every man.

 

Authority is imposed by divinity through marital vow on every husband and this must be exhibited and discharged meaningfully not by masculinity and “machoness” only but by simple discharge of timely responsibility without any iota and atom of reluctance,delay and resentment.

 

Responsible married men are known and praised by discharging their responsibilities without any form of coaxing and cuddling.

 

No wife should be bold and confident enough to challenge or raise an eye-brow by being indifferent to the correction and instruction of her husband once it is meant to be progressive and developmental without any readiness to share the responsibility needed in the family.

 

It will tantamount to meaningless insurbodination when you are deaf to your husband’s correction and instruction.This simply signal your desire to share parts of the responsibility needed in the family.

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Authority is akin and equals shared responsibility discharged by the parties involved in marriage without any trace of self-centredness.

 

Being indifferent to your husband authority signals your desire and envy to share the autority purposed and bestowed on your husband by divinity.

 

Desired equality between husband and wife is quite good and right but it becomes meaningful when the husband and wife are ready to share the responsibilities required for a balanced marital union equally.

“Desired equality between husband and wife connote desired shared authority and desired shared authority denotes desired shared responsibilities being shared equally in content and context having thesame running cost and thesame accompanied reward”.

 

Once this is in place, the confusion and misunderstanding embedded in marriages in this generation will end up being a thing of the past.

 

“Gone are the days of Mr.and Mrs.”

 

“In this generation, we have more of Mr.and Mr. stylishly-a kind of gayism that has not being noted by us and defined by us.”

 

Marriage should not be a battle ground for unhealthy rivalry between husband and wife.

 

“Marriage is designed for completion and not competition”.

 

In spite of the authority given by divinity to man, it should not be misconstrued as a tool for oppression and subjudigation by the husband.It is a necessity that must be used to propel meaningful love and care to the wife and the children.

 

No trace of disrespect and maltreatment should be allowed in the idealogy of the husband in discharging the authority granted to him by divinity.

 

In conclusion,marriage gets more interesting and meaningful whenever the basic understanding and knowledge needed to make it work meaningfully are on ground.

 

It should be designed to make the partners involved better in every ramification of human endeavour.

 

It is an addition not a subtraction.

 

Marriage is a treasure and not a burden.

 

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THE WRONG MOTIVE—-EPISODE 5.—-(12 MINUTES READ).

CHAPTER ONE.

Tiffany!!!

 

My daughter…..

 

How are you?

 

We have not talk since you came back from school….Tiffany’s mum kept speaking.

 

You have not tell me anything about school life since you came back.

 

Why?

 

Hope nothing is wrong?…Tiffany’s mum continued.

 

Tiffany’s mum engaged her in a chat while in the kitchen after they got home from church service and they were both in the kitchen preparing lunch for the whole family.Tiffany’s is the only daughter and the only child that was available to spend her holiday with her dad and mum, others are guys and they are presently in higher institutions studying one course of discipline or the other.

 

Mummy!

 

Mummy!!

 

Mummy!!!.

 

We have been talking about one thing or the other since I came back now…Tiffany responded.

 

Is there anything I forgot to tell you or add to the discussion we have been having since I came back Mum?…Tifffany continued.

 

I guess something is fishy.

 

Mum!!!

 

I guess you are insinuating something, but it is a pity I cannot figure it out presently.

 

Can you please help me out Mum?….Tiffany asked.

 

Do you mean you cannot decipher my codes and parable….Tiffany’s  mum reponded.

 

Ok!

 

If you cannot,kindly tell me about happennings while you are in the school from academics to social to spiritual and every other things that happenned while you were in school….Tiffany’s mum asked further.

 

Mum!!!

 

Everything is fine in school….Tiffany responded.

 

I really enjoyed my last semester.It was a little bit less stressful and since I am about rounding up,academics seems to be light, it just my final year thesis that I am suspecting might be energy sapping and time-consuming now but since I am winding up now, I will not be moved and bothered about it.i will just handle it the way it is.

 

Also, the school environment has been peaceful, serene and calm. The trend of social life has been a little bit upped courtesy the freshers and sophomores due to the fact that time is still on their side to flex and enjoy school environment but on my side, I am tired and eager to write my final exams and leave the school environment.So, social life has not been somehow irrelevant to me now.

 

Hmmmm….Tiffany’s mum sighed.

 

My daughter…

 

You have not tell me what I want to hear now….

 

Mum!!!…Tiffany called.

 

Whatelse do you want to hear again….Tiffany asked her mum.

 

 

I am beginning to suspect that what you are asking me is more than what I have given you…Tiffany responded…

 

Yes!!!!

 

It is more than what you are giving me.I am oliver twist.I need more gist from my only daughter…Tiffany’s mum voice went up.

 

What is going on there in the kitchen…Tiffany’s dad interrupted from his sitting position in the living room where he was busy reading daily tabloid and watching an afternoon lifestyle program on one of the cable network on the Television.

 

Nothing much sir…Tiffany answered.

 

We were just in the middle of an interesting discussion with your darling wife.Sir, please,kindly come and pick your wife in the kitchen.She is putting hand in my mouth too much to extract information I didn’t have any access to and I am yet to figure out what exactly is your wife stand about all the questions he keeps asking me.Though, I have answered her but she seems not satisfied with my answer and I am getting fed up of her.Please, come and take her away so that I can finish cooking for both of you on time.

 

Ok!!!

 

Tiffany’s dad burst into sporadic laughter but later answered Tiffany that she should give all the necessary answers to her mum’s questions because I will not want her to disturb me while you are back to school.Please, help me out and give her all the necessary answers….Tiffany’s dad paused  but kept laughing with the funny discussion that has engulfed the whole house on a sunny sunday afternoon.

 

Ok!!!

 

Sir…

 

I will answer all her questions before I go back to school but not now.Kindly, help me to tell her to come out straight so that we will not be beating about the bush using questions to answer questions but I am still suspicious of what your wife is up to.

 

No Problem!!!

 

My dear daughter…Tiffany’s dad responded.

 

I will ask her to go straight to the point.

 

Better!!!…Tiffany continued with his dad.

 

It can’t be now.Let’s finish cooking lunch and rest.It might be later in the day when we are all calm and relaxed that we will dedicate time to give answers to all her questions.

 

Ok!!!

 

No problem…Tiffany’s dad and mum chorused in unison.

 

We are eager to listen to our dear daughter answering our questions one after the other.

 

THE WRONG MOTIVE—EPISODE FIVE—-CHAPTER ONE.

 

As it was gradually getting to break-time, Tony was so much eager to unbottled himself.He managed to concerntrate with his work because his mind was on the planned and proposed discussion he will be having with his close pal and also he is still bothered and anxious about meeting the figure he saw on sunday soon.

 

As he saw Titus walking from his office door gradually nearing his office, Tony’s heart leapt for joy and he speedily round up whatever he is doing in order to ctach up with Titus before he get to his door so that they can both proceed to have lunch and have a deep discussion as promised in the morning.

 

Good Afternoon Sirs….Madam the spoon greeted the duo of Tony and Titus together.

 

Afternoon Ma….Tony and Titus replied.

 

What do you want sirs….Madam The Spoon asked further.

 

Do you have Fried Rice and Chicken….Tony and Titus asked.

 

Yes!!! I have Fried Rice.

 

While Madam The Spoon was preparing for them, the discussion started.

 

Tony!!!

 

How far now….Titus asked.

 

What really happened in the course of the weekend….Titus probed further.

 

Hmmm…..Tony started.

 

I started my sunday morning being late to the church because I woke up late.So, I got to late to church and I wasn’t able to officiate and on getting to church hurriedly, though I managed to calm down and accept my fate by listening attentively to the sunday sermon.

 

As I was settling down,while looking around in the course of the service, my eyes sighted somebody that caught my fancy on the spot.Though, I made up my mind to see her at the end of the service.

 

At the end of the service,I tried to catch up with her but someone delayed me with a useless chat and on getteing to where she stayed which is the choir stand, I met her absence.Though, I was fortunate to ask of her from the choir master to the extent that we both glanced through the officiating attendance for the day, the choir master didn’t allow me to go with her biodata but promised to help me by asking me to come over next sunday.

 

I have no choice but to consent with the choir master’s proposal.

 

Was that why you are bothered and pensive…Titus asked.

 

Yes!!!

 

Why could I have missed opportunity with God and man by being late throughout yesterday….Tony responded.

 

And now, I am so much eager and anxious of what might happen next sunday.

 

At this point, Titus burst into laughter and it attracted other eyes that were present in the canteen.

 

Tony was a little bit shy and embarrassed with the number of people that turned their faces towards their sitting stand in the canteen.

 

It seems you are gradually falling in love….Titus pointed it out to Tony.

 

You need to calm down and be patient with yourself.

 

If you are destined to have her, no problem.If you are not, life goes on.You will surely meet another person in due time.Stop killing yourself gradually by being moody.

 

Is that all?….Tony asked.

 

 

Let’s eat our food.

 

At this point, one of Madam “The Spoon” waiteress has already laid down the food the requested for on the table where they are sitting with bottled Table water.

 

They both enjoyed the delicacies till the break-time was over.

 

They both engaged themselves with other frivolities till they got back to their respective offices.

 

THE WRONG MOTIVE—EPISODE FIVE—CHAPTER TWO.

 

Is Tony’s motive right or wrong?

 

Let’s keep our fingers crossed for the next episode.

 

It promised to make you ask for more.

 

Any comment, suggestions and observation is welcomed.

 

Thanks.

 

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GETTING ALONG WITH GOD.–(3 Minutes Read).

This publication was originally published on facebook on the 8th of November 2016 and reading it now made me believed that it will serve a purpose of being a source of motivation and inspiration for all my viewers,readers and followers.

It goes thus:

 

Getting along well in life with all its accompanied vagaries,distractions and disappointment without getting along well with God will author confusion and frustration with its end in vanity.

 

The strength required for exploit and the vigour needed for being above all can only be sourced from the author of life who called everything into existential without any iota of stress but by the spoken word.

 

Detaching yourself from the resourcefulness emebedded in using your tongue to confess and profess the right word with you standing aloof from the source of every creation will only end in doom and perdition.

 

Nothing in life should stand in the gap between you and your God no matter how relevant and important it might be.—Romans 8 verse 28-35.

 

Unknowingly your reference for men standing as an authority for you might end up standing against you from being permanently attached to God.

 

When you reference men more than what is expected, God’s wrath is never far away from you.

 

Men that refer men as God in words and in deeds are doing what is unacceptable by any standard because God is not in anyway at thesame level with any of His creation.

 

 

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No human is worthy enough to be referenced as God.

 

Remember, God will never share His Glory with anyone.

 

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WHAT IS THE NEXT STEP?—(5 MINUTES READ).

Without any doubt,this is one of the questions that always accompany the achievement of a particular feat and task or series of accomplishment.

 

While some of us get clarity of what the next step ought to be or should be,others are always in quandary and utmost confusion of where to start from or what is the next step.

 

This phase of human existence is not strange and peculiar to a perticular tribe, sex,race,ethnicity,social group,peer group,political and religious affliation.The peculiarity of this phase of human existence is all encompassing and overwhelming to the point that everyone  found existing on earthly pedestal will pass through this phase asking and pondering about ‘what could be next step”.

 

It is a phase of life that can never be denied, dodged and overlooked.

 

It is a moment whereby decisions that will make or mar the destiny of anyone who is presently in existence.

 

It is a fact and a statement of assurance that over 7 billion population of human being is being accommodated on the surface of earth and they are all going to be a product of this phase or they are all going to get to get to a point in the course of their existence whereby such question will demand an answer from them.

 

After all have been done,

After all sacrifices and selfless inputs,

After given all the resources at your disposal,

After contributing immensely,

After giving a hand of help and hope to others,

After being the light amidst gross darkness,

After being lifting others from miry clay,

After crossing the rubicon,

After!After!!After!!!

What next!!!

 

No doubt about it,at a particular point in life, we are all going to encounter an experience that has to do with a feeling of satisfaction or a feeling of disappointment and discouragement.

 

We are all going to believe that we have done what we can do within our capacity to salvage and restore situations around us.We are all going to feel resentful and discouraged after all we have done in sacrificing selflessly for others but societal system deliberately or indeliberately failed to recognize,recommend and renumerate our efforts.

 

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WHAT IS THE NEXT?

 

In the midst of this experience,it is never abnormal,strange and abysmal for anyone to feel cheated or discouraged but one thing that sure is that at this point that the latent strength in us ought to push us forward to forge ahead continuing doing what is necessary,good and right for the elevation and emancipation of the entire world.

 

Every human being on the surface of the earth can be likened to a farmer.While some of will sow a good seed on a good soil,some will sow a bad seed on a good soil but it is only few people that would sow a good seed on a good soil.

 

Then, while the seed sown by you is strangled and prevented to germinate due to poor societal systematic decadence,it is pertinent for you to encourage yourself ,dust yourself and keep moving until you get a good seed in your hand and a good soil whereby it will be sown,germinate and end up becoming an evergreen tree that will turn into a forest in the nearest future.

 

No matter how inconsequential an effort geared towards alleviating the plight of the next person around you might be,it is reasonable and rationale that it should be appreciated but it is appalling and disheartning that the system being operated in our world today has no value and appreciation for truthful human endeavour chanelled towards making the world a better place,hence many people that have good intention to make things better ends up being frustrated and they keep on asking questions about “what is the next step”.

 

No matter how disappointed and discouraged you are, the best way to handle this kind of experience is for you to become relentless and unrepentant in your desire to make things right in the course of your existence on earth.

 

Though,many of your efforts will end up being unappreciated with some of it ending up putting you in problem and also making you to be at a logger-head with some people,cabals and authorities.

 

The best solution is for you to define your goals,targets and fashion out series of strategies that will allow your efforts to be appreciated.

 

Always remember that there are over 7 billion people that needs the littleness of your efforts to trigger and birth the latent greatness inherent in them.

 

In conclusion, whenever your effort in alleviating the plight of one person is not appreciated, do not give up,always remember that the world you live in has a population of over 7 billion people.Always remember and consider the remaining sea of heads that are waiting for the unappreciated effort wasted on that one person.That effort expended on one person that is not appreciated and valued is enough, powerful and potent to raise million of people out of the miry clay.

 

Once your effort is not appreciated, change the scope and make sure you find other people that are in dire need of what you can offer as a form of effort and resources needed for their dream to come to reality.

 

In essence, the next step is for you to look for other people that will appreciate what you can offer.

 

You have wasted precious time being pensive and ruminating about what the next step.

 

Maximize your precious time to look for people that need what you can offer.

 

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