Is there any reason for Prostitution?— (5 Minutes Read).

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I wrote this piece on a particular social media platform yesterday and it was a product of my recent observation on Sunday,9th of July 2017 while on transit in a particular area in Lagos which is popularly known to be the base of prostitution in Lagos Nigeria and I think it is befitting to pen down some few words about my experience and observation that confirmed to an extent that this particular area in Lagos State is an abode of prostitute.

Here comes a piece that describe what I observed in simple words that will be easily understandable to my readers.

Are we set for the gist,

If you are ready,

Lets keep the ball rolling.

 

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They started taking up a spot.

They started coming out from different angles.

The sight of blouses exposing belle buttons filled my eyes.The sight of fresh lumps with mold of flesh and boobs was on display.They have their skimpy dresses on exposing their laps which is a raw material for advertising to would be clients,pimps and other business associates.

My eyes were filled with breast popping out of their bra-less top.

I was initially unconscious of the realities around me and when I checked my time, I realised that darkness has taken over and the daughers of the night are strolling out of their enclave one after the other.

It was when a would be commuter signalled and beckoned to the automobile conveying me that I was conscious about happennings around me.

It was then I noticed that I am transisting through the popular OPEBI-ALLEN AVENUE axis famous for her ability to accommodate the trade or the business of prostitution which made it to be the headquarter of prostitution in Nigeria.

Prostitution is one of the oldest profession or means of survival and making ends meet known to mankind with different histories of humanity having it chronicled and it cut across every race,ethnicity, tribes and nationality.

Even places and parts of the world that are known to be popular with the application of Islamic Law known as SHARIA LAW are not exempted from the practice of the profession of prostitution.

I could remember vividly in the course of my compulsory one year National Youth Service Corps–NYSC in Yobe State,I stayed in NEPA’s Lodge then with a brother and a friend named Bola Ogunbanjo in 2005/2006 Batch B NYSC Scheme.

To my utmost consternation,chagrin and dismay, the next street or junction close to our abode habours a place or a joint where sexual businesses are being transacted very close to the football and movie centre where we normally relax and unwind.

In a State whereby Sharia Law is being practiced.

What a deviation to what such a society is expected to be.

Back to my subject matter.

It was really surprising that it was not all the young ladies I saw were beautiful and attractive in the real sense of it and it made me to ponder and wonder about the rationale behind men that engages their services for being loose and randy.

Most of the men that patronised them are well to do in the society and I am still amazed and perplexed why men will descend so low and trashed their dignity and integrity in having just a second with these ladies because I observed that some of them are even looking tattered and unkempt.

It is quite baffling how a young lady that has a promising future will wake up one day and all she could think about as a lifestyle is to decide and determine to spend the productive part of her life filing by the road side looking for a man that she will be an object needed to satisfy his uncontrollable “randiness”.

Though, I dont want to be judgemental in my view and analysis but I want to be objective in the sense that if some of them are queried about their chosen profession and lifestyles,all they might embark upon is to go to the extreme in having streams of alibi to hold on to as a defence of their illicit and illegal means of livelihood.

At this juncture, we should not be oblivious and forgetful of other class and categories of ladies that are not professional in their approach but believed that life is all about maximizing and mortgaging their private parts or properties to satisfy men by sleeping with them.

No one can feign ignorance about the risk of contacting other deadly sexually transmitted diseases that can be gotten from having sex with several partners.The thought of this deadly diseases made me wonder about what could make a reasonable person to embark on a journey of self destruction by choosen prostitution as a way of life.

They are everywhere.They are busy plying their chosen profession.The city is filled with prostitutes and their contamination is on rampage and knows no bound.

In conclusion, there is one OPEBI-ALLEN in Nigeria but there are many OPEBI-ALLEN around you and the next person by your side might be one.

They are in your offices with every private and public organisations having a space for them.

They sleep with their bosses and even surbordinates to obtain favour in the form of promotion and atimes it is done for all -round sexual satisfaction but some of the mudanes they achieved through this dirtiness does not worth a while.

Some “OPEBI-ALLEN AVENUE” can beg and sleep with a mad man in order to get what they already have or what they did not need.

It starts with nothing but a lifestyle that is centred around having a begging mentality.

Once a man noticed this in you , you end up paying for what you bargain for.

May God give our daughters a good life that is based on self-confidence devoid of begging mentality.

Self-confidence makes a man, if you do not have it,

You are twice defeated in the race of life.

Godliness with contentment is a great gain.

Why prostitution?

Someone should give me an answer.

 

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Never give up.—-(5 minutes read)

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The 5th of July 2017 is a precious day in my entire family that I cannot forget as long as I am still breathing.It is a day that is a simple confirmation of the fact that no human on the surface of the earth has any reason to throw in the towel and give up.

Winners never quit and quitters never win.

This is my story.

Are you ready?

Let me share my story with you.

The 13th of December 2017 was a great day in my family as my brother who happenned to be the last born and the last of the three men my mother gave birth to walked down the isle and tied the knuptial knot with his hearthrob.

Though I was unable to attend the wedding due to the nature of my official duty that is quite demanding but the wedding was succesful and everything went the way it has been planned and projected.

It is expected that every marriage must be fruitful after some months into the marriage but this marriage I am writing about failed to produce a child and it became a very sensitive issue that everybody keeps believing God for.

Many stories and incidence of miscarriages became the order of the day and at a point, our hope for this marriage becoming fruitful was out of view.

The only thing we hold on to was our faith in God that has promised never to leave us nor forsake us—Hebrew 13 verse 15.

Days started counting with weeks and months adding up to make a year and years keeps adding up from 2014 up till 2017.The marriage seems to be barren.

In the course of this year,like two months ago,while in a mobile telephone conversation with my sister, she informed me that my brother’s wife is now an expectant mother that we should pray for a succesful delivery.

Since the moment I received this message, I have raised an altar of prayer for the succesful delivery of my brother’s wife.

On the 5th of July 2017, i received a call from my sister who happenned to be the only woman my mum had and the first born of the house that my brother’s wife called me that my brother’s wife is already in the hospital in preparation for delivery and she asked me to pray along but all i told her was that she should not worry that she is coming out of the hospital strong with a baby looking healthy.

Few hours after this conversation, another call was received by me through my sister again that she had delivered a bouncing baby boy.

It was on this incidence that the glory of God descended on us in our family and the barrenness and delay close to three years now was terminated and destroyed.

It would have been three years by 2017 December without an issue but God disgraced the devil and gave the entire family reason to be glad and rejoice.

My brothers and sisters with all my friends,what is that issue bothering your mind and you think all hope is lost?

 

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What you need is to believe in God that is interested in making you happy by fulfilling all promises made by Him.

There is no need to give up as long as we are still breathing.

Giving up is for the cowards but those who are strong and fearless are seen to be brave without loosing any battle.

God is not yet ready to loose any battle no matter how inconsequential and insignificant it might be.

For you to live a winning life, there is a need for you to know and believe a God that has never lost any battle because the battles of life are real and they are quite different from every other battles being fought in the physical.Battles of life are real ,invisible and spiritual but with help of God, they are not invicible.

God is never too late to attend to your situations and turn around your circumstances for your good.God is the omnipresent that is busy doing the right thing that will make you realise the purpose of God for your life.

To humans, God might be slow but in the midst of God slowness, God is busy using time to perfect the situation around you.

God has promised to turn every issue in your life to an occasion of testimony–Luke 21 verse 13.

With this, why do you have to give up when God is just starting with you?

Why are you complaining and murmuring?

Is it becoming too late?

Nope!!!!

God is never late.

God always answer us at the right time .

God always show up at a time when all hope has been lost.

No matter what you might be passing through now, God is telling you to slow down and look at what He has started doing in your life.

God has done it in my family and God has promised to do more but what is remaining is that you have to be patient to allow God to finish the work HE started in your life.

Just as my family received their bundles of Joy,so it has been confirmed that you will receive your bundles of Joy at the appropriate time and season.

Dont give up!!!

Your miracle is on the way!!!

Just keep trusting God!!!

God has promised to fulfill all His promises concerning you whether the devil likes it of not.

No matter how turbulent the tidal waves might be, God has promised to stay with you and grant you a safe landing at the right moment.

For it is written:

“Those who put their trust in God shall never be put to sahme”—-Romans 10 verse 11.

As it is written concerning my brother having a child after almost three years,everyone of us should remember that those who wait upon the Lord shall be strong .

No matter what it will take,

I will admonish you to wait,

For God to perfect that which that conerns you.

No matter the time,

No matter the wasted years,

It is better to wait now.

Never give up!!!

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